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To think this is descending in to farce

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 12:25

We now have to F4J guys sitting on corbyns roof

Ffs sake will the man just bloody go he's can never be elected primister it's literally somthing every day

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Dutchcourage · 05/08/2016 15:58

Im a Corbyn supporter too!

TwatbadgingCuntfuckery · 05/08/2016 16:00

I have waded though the deep pigshit that is the MRA forums and videos and they are very pro fathers for justice and some of the things they say relating to the mothers of their children leaves you speechless.

Fathers for justice is just an extension of it I feel.

Just search on FB and read the comments to posts :( Its not about justice but control of women and children and failure to do whats right.

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 16:06

Hahahaha
They can't go though the courts because a lot of them have criminal convictions for doing shit like climbing on people's roofs 😁

And the judges think nope your a twat think we keep mum the primay carer

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ifyoulikepinacolada · 05/08/2016 16:06

Like the PPs, anyone who pisses off F4J is ok in my book!

I don't understand the relationship between them sitting on Corbyn's roof and his refusal to stand down as Labour leader, though? OP, when you say 'it's literally something every day' are you saying Corbyn put them there as a publicity stunt or something? Pretty sure that's not the case.

WantToRunAgain · 05/08/2016 16:09

Where did you get the impression I was a Blairite? I resigned from the LP over the Iraq war and am certainly no Blairite!

But of course if we don't support the cult of Corbyn we're Blairites go be despised.

Gotta love the tolerance of the Corbyn fan Hmm.

I await with dread the annihilation we'll receive at the next GE and then look forward to all the excuses corbyn's supporters will come up with as to why we didn't win.

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 16:12

They will balms the right wing Guadian and BCc

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LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 05/08/2016 16:12

because they have criminal convictions for climbing on people's roofs

Yep. That's obviously the only reason they're considered unfit parents.

SlightlyperturbedOwl · 05/08/2016 16:13

Grin I'm not really a fan but that actually makes me like Corbyn more. It's beyond belief that anyone claiming to be pro-family can think that children's best interests shouldn't be at the very heart of the family court system Hmm

WantToRunAgain · 05/08/2016 16:15

They'll blame anyone but Corbyn.

I feel like I'm watching an extremely bad version of Emperor's New Clothes Confused. I just don't get the deification.

Zame · 05/08/2016 16:19

I would love to hear from ex partners/wives of these fathers for justice losers, I'm sure there's excellent reason for them not to see their children

SlightlyperturbedOwl · 05/08/2016 16:20

The deification is weird, especially as he's been so ineffective as opposition leader. Am dead worried we will just end up with Tories in for ever and ever while they dismantle every public service there is left Sad

Gowgirl · 05/08/2016 16:20

I know of one, he has no contact because he is a manipulative, abusive cunt!

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 16:22

poster LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF Fri 05-Aug-16 16:12:52
because they have criminal convictions for climbing on people's roofs

Yep. That's obviously the only reason they're considered unfit parents.

not just that but I doubt it helps I wouldn't think many judges will go in for climbing on someone's roof dressed up as batman

One would think it would simply be another way for the mothers to demonstrate there incompetence as a parent

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LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 05/08/2016 16:23

An ideal situation is two separated parents making their own decisions regarding childcare, maintenance, etc.

Sometimes, mediation, and eventually, a court procedure is required to keep everyone happy.

And then you have 'Fathers' for 'Justice'. I'd hazard a guess that each member of this emotionally abusive, controlling, misogynistic organisation falls into one of three categories:

Loser
User (substance-related)
Abuser

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 16:27

Zame

They are often vexatious litigants

People who use the law to abuse or harass there target

So going for contact when they actually don't want it , taking mum to court for a extra hour on a Sunday or demanding extra

There often not really interested in there child but just want to keeps tabs with the mum and want to keep contol I think maintence if often used this way

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ateapotandacake · 05/08/2016 16:31

I just looked up these guys and can't find a lot of sympathy for a man who doesn't seem to want to put his daughters needs first.
Go Corbyn!

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pleasemothermay1 · 05/08/2016 16:33

My sister ex was like he literally to her to court once every few months

He wanted a extra half hour
Then he wanted birthdays not Christmas
Then he no longer wanted concat with his step son whom he known since we was 1 😳 He actually to her to court for this

He also took her to court over 50/50 care he lives 4 hours away so not sure how he thought that was going to work

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LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 05/08/2016 16:37

Yes, pleasemother. These men have no interest in parenting or being fathers. If they had, they would have either agreed to reasonable/shared access with the mother, OR, if they felt they were being denied access unreasonably, would have instigated a court procedure. I loathe them and their ridiculous costumes. Shall I dress up as Elsa from Frozen in order to get my son an EHC plan? No. I'll keep discussing/planning/exploring every bloody avenue open to me. I'll be a parent.

LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 05/08/2016 16:39

Oh, and Jezza, I've got Dettol if you want to disinfect your roof tiles .....

Fatmomma86 · 05/08/2016 16:51

the opinion polls say he's unelectable, history says he's unelectable, common sense says he's unelectable.

Didn't history, the opinion polls and common sense also say we'd Remain?

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LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 05/08/2016 17:07

momma Grin. I'd like to think common sense would mean that a man who has sexual liaisons with pigs, burns fifty pound notes in front of the homeless and 'hilariously' forgets he has left his child in a pub might be unelectable. Nope. On that reasoning alone, I think Mr Corbyn has a hope.

LumpySpacedPrincess · 05/08/2016 17:09

How can anyone disagree with putting the child's rights first, selfish gits!

WantToRunAgain · 05/08/2016 17:11

Fatmomma, common sense said we should remain but not history and the opinion polls were too close to call.

People voted for Cameron cos he appeals to their self interest. That's what people want. That's why they don't vote for increased taxation.

I wish it were different but it's not.

ddrmum · 05/08/2016 17:15

I hope they get a bill for wasting the time of emergency services😠

wasonthelist · 05/08/2016 17:22

the excuses corbyn's supporters will come up with as to why we didn't win.

That's easy - if Labour don't win the next election (assuming Corbyn is leader) it will be because too many people are still right wing fascists and Labour didn't have a leader to appeal to them.

Labour can (maybe) have a hollow victory at a future election by trying to out Tory the Tories by having a leader who is a media-friendly twonk who won't frighten the horses and follows a totally Tory set agenda - that's not my idea of a victory though.