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WWYD car parked on our drive

826 replies

Marsaday · 19/07/2016 21:48

Some complete asshat has left their car parked on our drive.

It has been there at least since my OH got home at 4.30, but could have been there all day.
Have phoned 101 and police say not reported stolen but they won't do anything as the car is on private land and not blocking us in. It's not a car that we recognise as belonging to neighbours and we're not near a hospital, station, airport etc.
We have currently parked across the drive preventing said car from leaving and left our phone number on the window. However, as we have a baby and a toddler our phones are on silent at night.
WIBU to leave the car blocked in until morning?
Or how can we get the car moved?

OP posts:
RhiWrites · 19/07/2016 23:33

Could've worse. For the last few hours there was a man parked on our drive - no car just a man and a bottle of booze. We had to call the police to move him on in the end. I'm sorry for the bloke but I don't want him sleeping in my front garden.

PovertyPain · 19/07/2016 23:35

Fuckingmother Why don't you put up a sign, stating that you will have them ticketed if they park illegally, ie over your drive?

Tangofandango · 19/07/2016 23:39

It is entirely possible to park on a drive by mistake.

Last summer DH and I went to an afternoon party given by ex neighbours where we used to live. As we drove into the road another neighbour was just leaving his house to go to the party. He waved us over and said we could park on his drive as space was limited outside the party house, which we duly did, and walked down the road to the party. All the houses in the road are the same, all with drives long enough for 3 cars.

About 7 hours and a few glasses of Pimms later (me, not DH as he was driving), we left the party and walked back up the road, up neighbour's drive, and got in the car. Suddenly the front door opened and an irate man came out ranting and shouting about us parking on the drive. I recognised him as the man who lived next door to neighbour. I couldn't understand why he was so cross, and why was he coming out of neighbour's house when neighbour was still at the party.

We both got out of the car, DH saying nothing while I tried to placate the angry man, he kept shouting about why would we park on the drive blocking people in. I was saying Neighbour had given us permission to park there, and he was saying whats it got to do with him.

I now started to look around and it was slowly dawning on me that this drive looked a lot different to the one we had parked on, more bushes, plants etc. I then realised that we weren't on the drive we had originally parked on - but how could the car have moved from one drive to the other. I was apologising to angry man and saying I couldn't understand what had happened, that we hadn't been on his drive but now we were. I was truly mystified.

Then DH piped up with "I did drive round to the shop for cigarettes a couple of hours ago"

Yes, he had gone out, come back and mistakenly parked on angry man's drive instead of neighbour's. I was mortified.

Lilacpink40 · 19/07/2016 23:41

I haven't read all of the thread, but I'm hoping that you've taken lots of photos from different angles for latter reference, and including registration plate.

They may be repeat offenders, and photos on phones are dated if you need a record.

I'd be thinking of syrup over door handles. Subtle but hard to remove!

Icallbullshit3 · 19/07/2016 23:42

Placemarking. Absolute helmets. Id let their tyres down and write on the windscreen with lipstick... But that's probably just because I'm hot and grumpy lol

Permanentlyexhausted · 19/07/2016 23:42

Get down to Halford's and get a wheel clamp. Clamp the car and wait for the knock on the door. When they knock tell them you can't help as it isn't actually your house - you just saw it was empty one day so decided to move in.

TheRattleBag · 19/07/2016 23:44

Tangofandango that's hilarious. And DH was the sober one? Grin

Onesieisthequeensselfie · 19/07/2016 23:48

Tangofandango GrinGrinGrin

wavingnow · 19/07/2016 23:49

Sure this type ofproblem has happened and been posted on MN before, can't recall what happened though. Very curious to know this time.

ShiftyFades · 19/07/2016 23:51

Feeling your pain as we have a shared drive that out neighbours think they have more right to because they've lived there longer. We live on a busy road and they let visitors park in the shared "access" part meaning I have to block them in.
It always takes me a very long time to come out and unblock them once they knock and apologise. The annoying thing is, we both have parking bits that can take 3 cars, we both have 2, we part so our visitors can park in our third space but they spread their cars out so their visitors can't.

I just don't get people's mentality Confused

JakeBallardswife · 19/07/2016 23:52

Ooh, how frustrating for you!

frankie001 · 19/07/2016 23:54

Place marking for the verdict.

AnotherDayInParadiseLost · 19/07/2016 23:55

loving the bird seed idea

LagunaBubbles · 19/07/2016 23:55

Tango Grin

GlitteryFluff · 19/07/2016 23:56

Marking place...

MikeWasowski · 19/07/2016 23:59

Cheeky buggers!! Love the bird seed idea! Grin hope you've blocked them in!! I would be in no rush to move it either! Wink

CantChoose · 19/07/2016 23:59

I assumed traffic cone man was blocking his own drive not a public space. If the latter, def a twat.
When I lived in central London people would park on our driveway almost every Friday to attend religious services. It was clearly a driveway. Sometimes they would squeeze two on so they were parked over our lawn too. I'd put the wheelie bins in the way in the morning but they just got out and moved them Angry so glad I've moved now!

SistersOfPercy · 20/07/2016 00:01

A bloke near our old gp survey used to put cones outside his house. Highly amusing as he had a triple drive and only one car so obviously didn't like to look at other people's cars.
Of course this cone may as well have been a flashing beacon saying "park here" because everyone did. Amusingly the Dr's car park could be empty yet people would go out of their way to move his cones.

I confess I was disappointed when gp moved to the fancy new health center and the game had to end.

Bentedbigmess · 20/07/2016 00:02

The cheek of some people!

GirlFromMars1 · 20/07/2016 00:03

Any update??

Tangofandango · 20/07/2016 00:04

TheRattleBag he hadn't touched a drop! Just stood there letting angry man shout and me prattle on. Afterwards DH and I were in hysterics, it must've been so funny for anyone watching. When we told Neighbour what had happened he cried laughing. It's now a standing joke whenever we go round there - "Tango and Tango'sDH make sure you're parked on angry man's drive again".

Notprogressing · 20/07/2016 00:08
LucyBabs · 20/07/2016 00:09

OK hold on.. They have parked on the drive way but not blocked your entrance or exit? They haven't damaged your property or actually done anything to cause you hassle or a problem? Have I got that right?

Rubberduck2 · 20/07/2016 00:09

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BlueFolly · 20/07/2016 00:11

It's got to be a mistake, surely - nobody would be that cheeky!!!