I love it. But then, I guess my name here is the giveaway.
I kind of like the comic book, over the top, ridiculous violence. Yet I loathe films like 'The Godfather' and anything Quentin Tarantino which seem to me to be actual porn in that they glamorise violence. There is an underlying sensibility in GoT totally absent from, say, 'Pulp Fiction' which I found so boring, I literally fell asleep the one time I tried to watch it.
Am a big fan of the fantasy genre anyway so thrilled to see it finally take its place as a high ratings thing. (Am a Tolkien geek so also love the JRRT references).
YANBU, OP as we all like different things. I think the characters with underlying decency and honour - like Ned Stark, Jon Snow, Davos - counter-balance the violence. But also there are no absolutes so it is far subtler than the other sorts of viollent film or TV which I tend to find boring - there are complex characters like Jaime, or Bronn, who are both good and bad.
I thought the hugely violent Arya/The Waif interludes were bloody brilliant.
I also thought the Battle of the Bastards was probably the best shot war sequence ever - including film. It didn't glamorise war - totally the opposite. But it had to be unflinching and brutal, in order to do that.