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to think that a potty in a trolley is a step too far?

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homeiswheretheginis · 08/05/2016 22:55

Saw a woman with her two small girls going into the supermarket. She casually told the smallest to pop her potty in the trolley.

I felt sick. I try not to package vegetables etc, but rather put them unwrapped straight into the trolley in a bit to do my tiny bit for the planet. But never again. The idea of residual faeces in the trolley (having landed there when a potty was left there...) ending up on my food repulsed me.

AIBU or is that utterly revolting and unacceptable? Food goes in supermarket trollies, not receptacles for human waste...?

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EatShitDerek · 08/05/2016 22:56

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SouperSal · 08/05/2016 22:58

Don't you wash the fruit and veg before cooking/eating them?

NeedsAsockamnesty · 08/05/2016 22:59

Rats piss all over trolleys

BlueberryJuice · 08/05/2016 22:59

Ewww thats disgusting! YANBU!

OwlinaTree · 08/05/2016 22:59

Well, I think given people push them with their hands and probably spread all sorts of germs through touch, the potty would be the least of my worries.

Why did she need a potty going round the supermarket? They have toilets in most supermarkets?

gunting · 08/05/2016 23:00

What the Fucking hell

YANBU

Samcro · 08/05/2016 23:00

yanbu that is beyond weird

WhoDrewOnTheWall · 08/05/2016 23:01

Was it a used potty? Maybe she'd just bought it and youngest was carrying it, they nip into the supermarket and she tells her to pop it in the trolley rather than carry it around.

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acasualobserver · 08/05/2016 23:04

Agree, OP, that is truly vom-worthy. Did you say anything?

BillSykesDog · 08/05/2016 23:05

Are you sure they weren't buying the potty?

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TheFairyCaravan · 08/05/2016 23:07

YANBU, that's just nasty.

WhoDrewOnTheWall · 08/05/2016 23:09

did you say anything?

Hmm

Why would she?

And isn't it common sense to wash your fruit and veg anyway because trolleys aren't clean

Medusacascade · 08/05/2016 23:10

I disagree. The mum who ignored the toilets and let her daughter shit in a potty in the middle of a busy train carriage this week was a step too far.

LeaLeander · 08/05/2016 23:16

Yanbu. Disgusting, low-class and inconsiderate of others.

homeiswheretheginis · 08/05/2016 23:25

Of course I wash fruit and vegetables! But that doesn't make it ok! Human waste should be kept far far away from food.

It was a portable potty, she was obviously potty training her child (they were getting a trolley at the entrance at the same time I was).

Honestly, beyond appalling. Really surprised that so many people don't have a problem with this...

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DioneTheDiabolist · 08/05/2016 23:25

YANBU OP. I thought I'd seen it all when I saw a toddler peeling in a bottle in a shopping centre that had toilets, a supermarket with toilets and a load of cafes with toilets. In fact it would have been easier to find a toilet than an empty bottle in the place.

Peeling in a potty in a trolley is just minging.

squiggleirl · 08/05/2016 23:25

Hang on. I'm assuming the potty didn't actually have wee and poo in it, in which case it was clean. What's wrong with putting a cleaned piece of plastic in a trolley.

How many people handle trolleys? How many children climb all over them, with who knows what on their shoes?

How infrequently are trollies cleaned? Why would you put your unwrapped veggies in something not in any way clean?

homeiswheretheginis · 08/05/2016 23:26

Ps no, I didn't say anything. But I wish I had! I did shoot her a death stare but it glanced off her entitled face...

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UterusUterusGhali · 08/05/2016 23:26

Have you never read "cube of poo"?

TweeBee · 08/05/2016 23:27

Yes I reckon they had bought it into supermarket and we're going to carry it in trolley but presumably rush to loo if it was needed. You make it sound like the child was using potty in the middle of the shop!

TweeBee · 08/05/2016 23:28

Horrors! Were instead of we're of course. YABU though.

homeiswheretheginis · 08/05/2016 23:29

As it happens, there are no loos in that supermarket (which is a very naice supermarket). Presumably she knew that and so the potty was just in case. But that part is irrelevant as I can't know her intentions. What had me seething was her placing a potty in a trolley used for food shopping...

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RNBrie · 08/05/2016 23:35

I've never put a potty in a trolley. However I am in the process of potty training my dd and so there's always a lined travel potty in the bottom of the buggy or close to hand.

My dd literally gives me 30 secs notice when she needs a wee, it's never enough time to pop into a cafe and find a toilet. What is the correct thing to do when they announce they need a wee "Right Now!!". Surely a wee in a potty is better than a wee on the floor regardless of where you are?? Obviously finding a bathroom is the best option, but in the early weeks it's not always possible, do people just stay at home the whole time??

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