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HAVE YOU CANCELLED THE CHEQUE YET, OP?

607 replies

TheDevilMadeMeDoIt · 08/05/2016 12:12

Just askin'

And place marking for updates Grin

This thread can't end there, it's not an episode of Eastenders!

OP posts:
Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/05/2016 20:24

Puzzled - how did the daily mail contact you? They aren't allowed to do so via PM

I don't know about "not allowed" but it was definitely a PM I had from the journalist - maybe she's registered as a user in her own right rather than doing it in the Mail's name if that makes sense?

StrictlyMumDancing · 10/05/2016 20:37

You should have sold your story to them, for more than the cheque and then asked them to publish the amount - just to rub the grabby couple's noses in it!

DeriArms · 10/05/2016 20:38

FUCK THE DAILY MAIL
FUCK THE DAILY MAIL
FUCK THE DAILY MAIL

Screenshot that, you cunts

bibbitybobbityyhat · 10/05/2016 20:55

OP
As you know there's not much you can do about the Daily Mail lifting the story (and I am yet again shocked that there are still many Mumsnetters who are clueless about all this) but you could definitely ask HQ to 'ave a word about contacting you by pm. When you (collective you) go to write a pm, isn't there a prominent message clearly asking non-member/media people NOT to exploit the facility? or has that changed now? I haven't sent a pm for ages.

BeYourselfUnlessUCanBeAUnicorn · 10/05/2016 21:42

Can someone fucking link to the cunting Maui bastarding thread shitting please? Grin

Cannot fucking believe the lazy twatting DM pissing 'journo's' are wanking at it again! Write your own fucking stories you lazy twats!

BeYourselfUnlessUCanBeAUnicorn · 10/05/2016 21:43

bibbity, that hasn't changed, it does still say that!

Coconutty · 10/05/2016 21:46

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PacificDogwod · 10/05/2016 21:47

It's going viral - bwahahahahahaha!

DailyFail, ya cunts. Sad excuses for journalists, the lot of ya.
How pathetic.

Honestly, you could not make it up. 'Cancel the cheque' in the comments GrinGrinGrin

sepa · 10/05/2016 21:54

She couldn't CTC coz she had already been to the wedding in Maui Angry Bird Halo

Vardyparty · 10/05/2016 22:02

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ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 10/05/2016 22:04

Why do people keep saying it was made up?
Op is on this thread and the original thread stands as well.

Zola1980 · 10/05/2016 22:05

The 'many people people told her to cancel the cheque' bullet point in the header is the single most funniest thing ever!!

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 10/05/2016 22:08

Journalists aren't supposed to contact people on here but they do it a lot. Ive had quite a few PMs from national newspaper journalists over the years.

PacificDogwod · 10/05/2016 22:17

Yy, wedding on Maui, and christening of various children Halo

UnityBlottisaTosser · 10/05/2016 22:41

How are people still posting on the original thread? When I look at it says it's closed for new messages, but every few hours there's a new post on it.

Lweji · 10/05/2016 22:57

It's the bloody app.

YorkshireTeaDrinker · 10/05/2016 23:30

Just wanted to chip into the debate re copyright and the Daily Fails extensive use of the criticism and review exception.

Section 30 of the Copyright, Design and Patents Act (CDPA) permits the use of a work for the purpose of criticism, review, quotation and news reporting, if it is accompanied by sufficient acknowledgement, and provided that the work has been made available to the public. (Which anything published on Mumsnet obviously is).

There is limited case law on what constitutes criticism and review but in order for the exception to apply the copying of the work must be truly connected with review and criticism and not purely for illustrative or enhancement purposes. The use of a work must be fair, so must not duly impinge upon the copyright owner's rights of exploitation. The extent of quotation is no more than required for the specific purpose for which it is used.

The law does not give specific guidelines on what constitutes ‘fair dealing’; but, in relation to this exception, it may be useful to take into account the following:

The length and importance of quotation(s)
The amount quoted in relation to the commentary
The extent to which the work competes with or rivals the work quoted
The extent to which the use of commercial rather than academic

So, the Fail use of quotation in this case may be open to challenge on the basis that the amount quoted is is significantly larger than the accompanying 'commentary'. Also, the extent to which the Fail article could be said to rival the original MN thread. E.g. could reading the Fail article be an alternative to reading the source text, I.e the MN thread. This might form the basis for a challenge, as it could be taking traffic (and therefore revenue) away from MN and towards the Daily Fail.

So there might be grounds for MNHQ to consider action against the Fail, but its a fairly untested area of law, so v risky. There could be enough to justify getting a legal opinion from a copyright specialist, though.

Bambambini · 10/05/2016 23:54

Don't be saft, it's great PR and advertising for Mumsnet.

Mummyme1987 · 11/05/2016 00:25

Can anyone tell me what did the op do? Lost the will to read every page. Did she reply?

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 11/05/2016 01:01

No, Puzzled blocked BrassfacedBride, so even if she tried to reply, she couldn't have.

acasualobserver · 11/05/2016 06:12

This story has just featured on R4!

wavingnow · 11/05/2016 06:17

I was just about to post - this has just been mentioned on R4! Makes you think twice, even more about posting on MN.

DartmoorDoughnut · 11/05/2016 06:18

On BBC Breakfast! I almost spat out my coffee Grin

helennotsomadnow · 11/05/2016 06:20

cant believe this was on the BBC, Loose women next

I wonder if Bride will now see that most people think she is really rude Grin

BarbaraofSeville · 11/05/2016 06:21

I saw that too Dartmoor Grin

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