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AIBU?

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To think DH is being slightly selfish?

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Onthedowns · 22/04/2016 17:30

DS is 7 weeks , 3 weeks corrected as premmie. Hard work silent reflux still being sorted doesn't sleep flat, won't sleep unless upright ! Also have 4 yr dd . We are both suffering sleep deprivation. Averaging 4-5 hours a night, I have been up since 345. DH has been planning a night out since DS was 4 weeks old. He's out tonight AIBU to feel pissed off? I am exhausted as well as running house and dd etc. He is already tired go out drinking and be home 2-3 in morning Therefore wipe out tomorrow as won't be in fit state to watch children. Tiredness catches up doesn't it. I know everyone needs down time but I wasn't expecting so soon, none of his friends have children either. He said if I had said I wasn't happy he wouldn't arrange( I did got moaned at) I think he should be bit more considerate to situation? Or am I just pissedoff as so tired

OP posts:
Onthedowns · 25/04/2016 05:34

Well he did have till 10am but felt ill all day and I had one hour sleep as had to be at appt at 12pm

OP posts:
GeorgeTheThird · 25/04/2016 07:40

He's not pulling his weight here. So sorry, OP, you must be beyond exhausted.

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