To still be really weirded out by this?

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Came accross porn dp had been watching, was all teen porn which whilst creepy usually does just mean women in their 20s dressed a bit younger.but the one he had watched the most is this shy Angela girl and it's disgusting she looks very young and her adverts have like her lying in little bed with Winnie the pooh teddies,lollypops etc and dressed like an 8 year old. Apparently this isn't fucking gross because she apparently is 18and I'm overreacting I'm actually shocked this kind of stuff is allowed on mainstream sites how the fuck is this normal

I think screenshots would show that while it may be perfectly legal it shows an attraction to underage girls and therefore he may be allowed only supervised access with his child. Not because he may abuse him but who knows if the child could see it, he clearly doesn't hide it very well!

while it may be perfectly legal it shows an attraction to underage girls

Really? Is this really what it shows?? I'm genuinely shocked by some people's views on this thread; I had no idea how extreme some would be!

All it shows is that he find a grown woman acting like a teenager or aping the innocence of a much younger girl sexually appealing. Perhaps even the fantasy of her being a young girl is what gets him off; which may offend you. But as a pp said, he would likely - like most normal men - find that an actual, real life child behaving in this manner hugely disturbing and not even remotely sexual!

Jeez, complete derail, apologies.

I don't think it's extreme to be disgusted by someone finding a woman pretending to be an 8 yo.... I also wouldn't want that person arundel my child.

I've also just googled and she really does look young. I agree with 14ish. It is really disturbing.

She looks about 12
It's v weird and I have no issue with guys viewing porn normally. But this is v odd.

Yanbu op. This would be a deal breaker to me. Completely unacceptable.

I'm sorry to hear about everything you've been through op.

I felt compelled to register an account after reading this thread!

I split from my FORMERLY DH Richie after he admitted to this same particular fetish. In particular, he obsessed with this shocking "Little Lupe" character. I tried my best to be understanding but only months after bringing it up to me he had began to download REAL CHILD PORNOGRAPHY! Of course I couldn't take that anymore, I didn't feel like our children were safe so I went straight to the police. The worst part it, they only let him off with PROBATION! BRITAIN IS BROKEN.

Anyway; OP, YANBU. Frankly, you should have contacted the police already like I did on my "dearest" Richie.

-Babs

Thank good for you eatsleep was just talking about this thread with my dp and saying the reaction is really over the top to me. This is standard teen porn and he agreed she's clearly 18 acting innocent and young. Dunno where the age 8 came from but there are no 8 yr olds looking like this round my area...

Obviously I haven't watched it but sure the OP mentioned 8yo winning the pooh pajamas and teddy bears at some point in the thread.

That's awful babs clearly but to say all blokes or women who get off on role play about younger girls /school girls etc turn out to be child molesters is not true . Just like the 'girlfriends mum teaching the boyfriend about sex' fantasy it's all just nonsense taboo explored through role play / acting . I agree she looks young but she looks young . It's not real.

babs, that is a terrible thing to have happened to you, and I'm sure you know your exh is in no way representative of the vast majority of men! I'm glad you went to the police. Real child pornography = POLICE a million billion percent of the time. I bet that took a lot of courage.

Everyone else, legal adult pornography (in isolation, no other "wrongdoing" evident) DOES NOT EQUAL POLICE. They are busy dealing with stuff that is not legal.

cbigs I don't know if I've just lived the last 30+ years in really rum company or what but I'm baffled

Hmm. It's interesting that people say "not all blokes are like that" when it happened to me. All I'm saying is please contact the police immediately. Or regret never doing so earlier.

I know eatsleep my dp just said the same to me. he said open minded I think he meant rum really

For everyone saying it normal/fantasy etc have you seen the specific video the op is talking about as I haven't so I'm basing my opinions on her description. Do you have an alternative description of that video I can take into consideration?

Nope Does, I was going on a former consensus of her looking around 14. Ages mentioned seem to range from 20 to 12 (OP says she was dressed like an 8yo), but I think we're all confident she actually is over 18.

So if your (in the general context) 18 yo daughter looked 14 and you found out she was dressing as an 8yo to 'please her man' in a 'normal fantasy role play game' would you be OK with that? Would you also be OK with the 20yo daughter boyfriend being around/left alone with your 8yo daughter? Your 14yo daughter etc etc?

To clarify my last post isn't aimed at any one person.

If it were my daughter Does I'd be having a talk with her from a completely different perspective to be fair.

It might be interesting to know I was once someone's 22 yo daughter working as a lap dancer and on my way to work one night (full make-up, false lashes, bunches) I was ID'd for cigarettes - and that was when the age to buy them was 16! I was a bit as I do not I in any way looked like a child although I was slim, no boobs to speak of - I mean A cup - but I'm a grown woman and that's my body; why shouldn't it be sexy? And I was fully planning on profiting from the "I'm so ditsy, cutesy, innocent, not a care in the world" look that perhaps a teenager would rock. Also my choice, and it was a true aspect of my personality as a 22 year old woman.

And the girl in the video may have made her own choices to be in that position and that is absolutely fine but that doesn't make the people who get off on it less disgusting in my opinion.

It's good to know you'd be discussing it with your 18yo daughter. What about my second question?

Another funny story Does, I used to live with my now deceased elderly dgran who thought a tulip-bottomed short dress and peep toe shoes I was wearing were childlike. She went on to tell me she thought women shouldn't wear anything reminiscent of what children wear because it encouraged men to look at children in a sexual way - like poor, defenceless men with no impulse control would be forced to abuse children because us women had sexualised their image!

Another funny story Does, I used to live with my now deceased elderly dgran who thought a tulip-bottomed short dress and peep toe shoes I was wearing were childlike. She went on to tell me she thought women shouldn't wear anything reminiscent of what children wear because it encouraged men to look at children in a sexual way - like poor, defenceless men with no impulse control would be forced to abuse children because us women had sexualised their image!

Shit, didn't mean to post, wasn't finished...

Anyway, I obviously think what women and children wear isn't that different these days - certainly not like it was - and any man who can't tell the difference between a woman in clothes and a child in clothes has a massive, massive problem. Fundamentally this is a woman whose overall appearance I gather is that of a teenager but who is an adult. I understand it's complicated and raises a lot of questions. I would base whether or not I left someone with my 8 yo daughter on more than just the information supplied.

I'm honestly not sure what more information would be needed. I would take even a 1% chance with my child and based on that information alone I wouldn't want that man anywhere near me or my child. It's very disturbing.

I'm sorry, but I'd take a step back from this guy.