To ask when you lost your virginity?

[TwentyCupsOfTea]

The 'which song' thread has got me thinking... I was 15, how old were you?

Still haven't got round to it

21

19

15 - and it so wasn't worth it. Only did it because I was curious.

To the poster who talked about people in the press have sex with underage girls. It is most definitely not the same.

Those that have been arrested were because he was an adult and over the age of consent and was effectively grooming her. Doesn't matter it may well have been consensual and she knew what she was doing - at the time - he was an adult, and used his job to attract an impressionable teenager

14 and 15 year olds sleeping with their boyfriend of the same age is not the same and no court in the land would convict.

21, to the man I'm still with today. My group of friends were 14 when they started, drunken encounters in graveyards and derelict houses. A few of them now say they wish they'd waited for someone a little more special.

16 it wasn't earth shattering at all but
he was my first love. We were together about 2 years in the end. His mum hated me thought I was corrupting her precious son.....

14. He was 15. We'd been dating 8 months...

22

15, one of the lay in my peer group,still together 22 years later.
I would be horrified if either of my girls were having sex at that age though, they have grown up in a very different time and place to me.

*last not lay

fatmomma from the age of 11. So technically at 14 I wasn't a virgin. I was still convinced the only way anyone would care about me was to have sex with them, and that that was all I was good for, so although it was consensual, I wouldn't have done it had my head not been fucked up.

Bloody hell FattyNinja

Oh owl :(

17.5 with my boyfriend of the same age and it was the first time for both of us. Absolutely no regrets, we were together about 18 months.

13, to my 16 year old bf. Looking back, wtf was a 16 year old doing, shagging a (very young) 13 year old? I'd kill him if he were my son. He was an asshole anyway, and used sex very much as a tool of manipulation and abuse

It's given me a new perspective on teen relationships,that's for sure. It's not all heavy petting with spotty but nice Colin from chemistry class. Abusers have to start somewhere, I guess

3 days before my 20th birthday

17. To the 24 year old love of my life (then). We were together for a year before this and almost 4 years after this. I was in too deep and he was a cheating creep. We still live in the same city and see each other from time to time, we are on friendly terms now however I have since realised he is the eternal teenager who will never grow up. When we met he had 2 children and was divorced. Now (10 years on) he has 5 children, a 20 year old fiance and still no real job or prospects. I'm so glad I saw the light and met DH 9 months later. (After a rather promiscuous summer )

19, to a guy I met at my university taekwondo club.

25 and still a virgin

17 to a guy I was in love infatuated with, only did it once. Didn't do it again until I got together with DH almost 3 years later.
I now know that my first experience wasn't really what I would class as proper sex, so count DH as my first proper partner. Have known him since I was 12 and now I'm 27, love him lots I do I'm his lucky number 13!

16 to a knobhead, and not entirely by choice

16 to a controlling, insecure, much older man. Took two years to get out of it and I still hate answering phones.

13, to a 16 year old. Thought I really wanted to do it but it wasn't nice.

I was 13

I don't regret it. In fact, I don't have much of an opinion about it, it just is what it is.

He was a very nice boy and he still lives three doors down from my parents, now with his wife and stepson.

15 outside in a National Park with my older boyfriend (he was 21), sex wise it wasn't great but it was ok, We went for a drink afterwards in a pub and I realised that I had some twigs in my hair and felt very giddy about that, in fact I think that the twigs in the hair was the highlight.