What is the problem with families doing what they want to do? If people want to have a low key Easter, great, go for it. If others want to do something bigger and more 'Christmas like' good for them. As it is Easter is a much bigger celebration in most of Europe where decorations, card exchanging and gift giving is the norm in many countries. The Easter Bunny, for example, is not an American invention it comes from Germany. In fact in early Victorian Britain gift giving was the norm at Easter, with small gifts, toys and treats being placed inside decorative eggs. It's not some crazy Americanisation of the holiday. Americans just have a bigger celebration due to the fact that as they are a culture made up of various emigrant cultures they have been able to take all the best bits of celebrations from all the countries that their population originates from. The chocolate Easter egg has only been around for about 150 years and usurped the gift giving tradition thanks to the commercial ambitions of the chocolate companies. So it's not as if modern families eschewing gifts but increasing the profits of food giants like Mondeléz International Inc, Nestlé S.A. or Mars Inc. is one in the eye for encroaching commercialism!?!
Eggs have pretty much nothing to do with Jesus anyway (apart from the 'retcon' story of Mary Magdalene and her magic colour changing eggs that she is supposed to have taken to the Roman emperor). They are instead a widely held focal point of the spring celebration used by numerous human cultures for thousands and thousands of years, from the Indo-Iranian Zoroastrians, to the Persian originating Nowruz, to Egyptian Sham el-Nessim, to the Hebrew Pesach eggs on the Sedar Plate, to the European worship of the goddess Eostre. In European Christianity during the middle ages, eggs were forbidden during Lent so in order not to waste the eggs the chickens produced, families boiled them and saved them for Easter. And in order to add to the fast breaking celebration decorating the eggs during Holy Week became tradition. The Mary Magdalene egg legend eventually came about to explain the connection. And chocolate, a fairly recently invented confection derived from a South American plant has absolutely nothing at all to do with any religion and is only attached to Easter as most people find it delicious and like to use it to accentuate any holiday they enjoy.
The spring celebration has long predated Christianity and will long outlive it. It's the normal human condition to create communal celebrations, to enjoy festivities together and, especially at a time of seasonal renewal, to celebrate our children. So if you want to decorate your home and send Easter cards, if you want to have the Easter Bunny come, if you want to give your child chocolate, organise an egg hunt and/or a great big basket of toys, then go for it and don't feel bad. If you want to keep it simple and go to church in a new outfit, dye a few eggs and eat a little chocolate, then go for it and don't feel bad. The only thing people should feel bad for is mud-slinging and inventing crazy accusations about people who do things differently.