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Boy George is quite beautiful isn't he?

264 replies

OohMavis · 06/02/2016 22:20

Or am I being lulled by his make-up team and the strange studio lighting on The Voice.

Think I'm getting a bit of a crush Blush

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Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 10:45

Not sure about that bibbity.

Moln loses the 80s for getting those two confused. Grin

Samcro · 07/02/2016 10:47

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/music/2565874-for-the-love-of-Boy-George

here you go....away from AIBU and just for us lol

Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 10:48

I was about to say whoever starts next weeks BG appreciation thread can they not put it in AIBU. Grin

Moln · 07/02/2016 10:49

Don't think I mixed then up then. Not sure all a bit vague. vagueness possibly caused by too much time in Snobs and the such like

Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 10:56

Grin Adam Ant had the nose stripe. And dressed like a highwayman.

emotionsecho · 07/02/2016 11:09

The first episode of the Voice when all the coaches were singing the opening number as soon as BG started singing I thought how wonderful his voice still is, he wiped the floor with the others.

Regarding his crime, if the attitude is as shown by some on this thread then no-one should ever be let out of prison as clearly no-one is capable of rehabilitation.

JoffreyBaratheon · 07/02/2016 12:12

Another one who was in Brum in the 80s.

Lived in the next street to Ali Campbell's dad and was once asked out by Ali - regretted turning him down when I saw him on TV a short while after!

My other claim to 80s fame - and I didn't know this til last month because I had utterly forgotten til someone said "Do you remember when we..." but apparently I was in a small, intimiate folk club, and singing along with, one of Dexy's Midnight Runners the week 'Come on Eileen!' was in the charts (I have no memory of this). And the very night their video was running on TOTP.

Totally forgot it.

I was in the year below Simon le Bon at university. Didn't know him. But someone in my year at uni got the gig of being Margaret Thatcher in 'Spitting Images'.

Moln · 07/02/2016 12:15

I should point out my club times in Brum was the 90s. I was in Brum in the 80s just way to young for nights out!!!

Still wasn't too young to love Adam Ant

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 07/02/2016 12:16

I'M GOING TO SEE ADAM ANT THIS YEAR!

Moln · 07/02/2016 12:19

WHAT !!!!!!????????!!!!!!!

CAN I COME TOO???????????

Samcro · 07/02/2016 12:28

and me

Lj8893 · 07/02/2016 12:30

Me too Lois! At Isle of Wight festival!

Samcro · 07/02/2016 12:31

oh gosh come on eileen....that was on right after Japan on TOTP

Moln · 07/02/2016 12:40

Excellent. There's a group of us. I shall book a flight where am I going too?

Destinysdaughter · 07/02/2016 12:47

Loved Japan! David Sylvian was another man who looked beautiful in make up!

Boy George is quite beautiful isn't he?
Feenie · 07/02/2016 13:00

Me too, Lois - it will be the 5th time I've seen him in 5 years! Every single gig has been brilliant, and he is HOT.

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 07/02/2016 15:37

You know I reckon most of our 80's stars will be cheap enough for us to hire to play in our gardens.....

Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 15:43

I wanted to be Kim Wilde. Blush Isn't she all about the gardening now?

I don't think Adam Ant did it for me. I remember having Phil Oakey from The Human League on my wall when he had his weird hair. I really wanted to be one of those backing singers too. Blush

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 07/02/2016 15:44

Yes I thought I was seeing things when I turned on bbc 2 and Kim was crawling out a bush towards me Hmm

Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 15:45

This one. Or Shirley from Wham who went on to marry Martin Kemp. Envy

Boy George is quite beautiful isn't he?
SurferJet · 07/02/2016 15:46

I used to love tears for fears - their music still sounds good today. ( & Curt Smith was very good looking )

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 07/02/2016 15:49

We can hire Toyah for 2.5 k or Suggs for 11k. yes googled, no I'm not embarrassed

Sparklingbrook · 07/02/2016 15:51

I would love to hire Toyah! She doesn't live far from me. DH would want Suggs but that's a bit steep.

Caffeinator · 07/02/2016 15:59

I was watching this yesterday morning;

Hygge · 07/02/2016 16:05

"Does anyone really care about his past anymore? ( apart from a few on here ? ) I really don't think so. if the BBC are prepared to hire him that says it all really.
Leave the man alone"

His victim still does care very much, which is worth taking into consideration.

He has been quoted as saying "The BBC should be ashamed of themselves for employing Boy George after everything he did to me.

"He shouldn't be allowed to be a mentor they should axe him. He is a criminal who has been to prison."

"If a male celebrity beat up a woman with a chain, handcuffed her to a wall and threatened her with a sex toy, there would be a public outcry if he was given a high-profile job at the BBC.

"But because I am a gay man they think it's OK. It's outrageous."

He has also claimed his life was ruined by what Boy George did to him, and that George has never apologised or shown remorse.

He says needed therapy for eight years following the kidnap, and feels that George being given this job has now set back his recovery. And he also says he believed he was going to die while being kept prisoner.

He managed to escape while wearing just underwear and shoes, and had to run to a nearby shop for help while still handcuffed. He was cut free by the police.

And apparently he still believes that he would have been killed if he hadn't managed to escape.

So yes, while we all do stuff we regret, while George might have been high on drugs at the time (which possibly is all the more reason for his victim to fear for his life if he was off his face and unpredictable) and while we all do deserve a second chance, I don't think we can say that nobody cares anymore.

This man clearly cares very much and feels badly affected by George being given a very high profile job.

For what it's worth I quite like George. I read his autobiography years ago and liked him then. I like him now on the Voice, I find him interesting and quite insightful.

But I also believe that paying his debt to society and paying his debt to his victim are two very different things.

Society was hardly affected by George's crime, his victim has apparently suffered for years and is still suffering.

I don't know about you, but if all of that was done to me I don't think I'd be feeling too forgiving right now, regardless of how my kidnapper and abuser was now living his life.

Given that his victim has been in the press objecting to George being on the show, I think it's quite reasonable that people are talking about it, whatever their opinion is on him or his role on the show. If you commit a crime of that sort people will remember it and have an opinion on the rights or wrongs of so public a second chance.