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To send him this text?

117 replies

CrazyTracey · 31/12/2015 16:58

Long story short, met someone in summer 15 and we saw each other a few times in quick succession, as she was moving house a few days later. We made vague plans to meet up and messaged after but this came to nothing as we were living in different places and then she was moving to another country for 12 weeks! Didn't sleep together, but had a tipsy kiss or three

Im a tad paranoid that she thought I didn't like her romantically as I was a bit insular on our last meeting due to work worries? I asked her out for a drink shortly after but she couldn't make the dates I suggested

Anyway now I've actually moved to a big city fairly near her, literally today. I think she's back in the country too and has finished her secondment abroad.

Worth sending a text out of the blue d'you think? Timing is a lot more in our side now if we wanted to meet for a drink.

OP posts:
hilbil21 · 31/12/2015 18:46

Placemarking because quite frankly this is as exciting as my NYE is gonna get GrinGrin

Baconyum · 31/12/2015 18:48

Placemarking as this is about as much romance as I'm likely to get over new year (and possibly while of 2016!)

FantasticRik · 31/12/2015 18:51

I'm home alone tonight so would love to join you all for prosecco, or cava (not fussy).

wineoclockthanks · 31/12/2015 18:55

Another blantent placemarker

BoomChickenSoup · 31/12/2015 19:00

Ok I'm joining for the prosecco and updates

DartmoorDoughnut · 31/12/2015 19:03

Joining in the place marking hoping for a reply Grin

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 31/12/2015 19:17

Hoping OP silence means they're chatting so much there's no time for an update!

ImtheChristmasCarcass · 31/12/2015 19:22

A little mood musci whilst we wait for an update?

ImtheChristmasCarcass · 31/12/2015 19:22

Music!!

Iwasbornin1993 · 31/12/2015 19:31

Not place marking for the update, oh noGrinWine

Glitterkitten24 · 31/12/2015 19:42

Well I guess I know why I'll be doing tonight now- waiting for an update!
The hopeless romantic in me says that tonight is a great night to receive a 'been thinking about you recently...' text, hope she replies soon!!

Good luck OP!

Meeep · 31/12/2015 19:50

I'm stressed.
What if she's met someone else?

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/12/2015 20:11

Better to try and fail than never try.

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 31/12/2015 20:20

I've just seen in Actives WhatsApp is down! OP now has no excuse! Unless she's dashing across town for a reunion, it's the only excuse I will forgive. Grin

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 31/12/2015 20:21

...for not updating us I mean, obvs.

Penguito · 31/12/2015 20:37

Waiting for an update...

lunar1 · 31/12/2015 20:42

Not at all impatiently place marking.

knobblyknee · 31/12/2015 20:48

Do it!
If you dont you will kick yourself up the bum every time you think about what a massive twat you were for not doing it.

Do it! do it do it do it!

AllChangeLife · 31/12/2015 20:51

I want to know what happened... NYE date?!

elf0508 · 31/12/2015 20:51

Unashamedly place making Xmas Grin

Muddlewitch · 31/12/2015 21:16

I am glad you did it, I really regret not taking such a chance, I would be happily over it by now had I just got a rejection, the always wondering is horrible.

Not placemarking at all, just sharing experience

jeanmiguelfangio · 31/12/2015 21:22

Yay you!!!!! Good way to start the new year and placemarking

MooseTrap · 31/12/2015 21:41

Oh, exciting Grin

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 31/12/2015 21:45

Well I hope the reason Tracey has not yet returned to the thread is that she's busy on the phone talking to her hopefully now GF.

MiamiNaice · 31/12/2015 21:47

Happy new year op, good for you
placemarking

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