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To send him this text?

117 replies

CrazyTracey · 31/12/2015 16:58

Long story short, met someone in summer 15 and we saw each other a few times in quick succession, as she was moving house a few days later. We made vague plans to meet up and messaged after but this came to nothing as we were living in different places and then she was moving to another country for 12 weeks! Didn't sleep together, but had a tipsy kiss or three

Im a tad paranoid that she thought I didn't like her romantically as I was a bit insular on our last meeting due to work worries? I asked her out for a drink shortly after but she couldn't make the dates I suggested

Anyway now I've actually moved to a big city fairly near her, literally today. I think she's back in the country too and has finished her secondment abroad.

Worth sending a text out of the blue d'you think? Timing is a lot more in our side now if we wanted to meet for a drink.

OP posts:
FantasticRik · 31/12/2015 18:14

Have you text OP?

Original poster
CrazyTracey · 31/12/2015 18:15

Yep Grin

OP posts:
AnchorDownDeepBreath · 31/12/2015 18:16

Woo! Good luck OP.

SmallLegsOrSmallEggs · 31/12/2015 18:18

Ooh. Blatant fingers crossed place marking.

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/12/2015 18:18
SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 31/12/2015 18:20

Yay!

littleleftie · 31/12/2015 18:21

Prosecco anyone?

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/12/2015 18:21

Don't mind if I do.

BathshebaDarkstone · 31/12/2015 18:22

Ooh yes please! Wine

Goingtobeawesome · 31/12/2015 18:22

Can we all come to the wedding?Xmas Grin.

ByThePrickingOfMyThumbs · 31/12/2015 18:22

Well done OP! Not place marking oh no

DecaffCoffeeAndRollupsPlease · 31/12/2015 18:23

Send it, I know I would love to receive a been thinking of you text.

Kcat78 · 31/12/2015 18:24

Oooh hoping for a happy ending to this one!!

Justaboy · 31/12/2015 18:25

Well do let us all know the outcome of the greatest lurve TxT ever sent now!.

Whats the chances that the other girl is a MN'ert as well?.

ImtheChristmasCarcass · 31/12/2015 18:25

Good luck! Name your firstborn after me! Grin

Potatoface2 · 31/12/2015 18:26

what have you got to lose!....go for it

ImtheChristmasCarcass · 31/12/2015 18:26

"Carcass Tracey"…..has a ring to it, no?

doceodocere · 31/12/2015 18:30

That's perfect. If she's at all into you it'll make her Hogmanay. If she isn't, she'll be flattered.

I think she's into you.

chubbymummy · 31/12/2015 18:32

Hope you hear back soon. 2016 could be off to a great start for you already!

fidel1ne · 31/12/2015 18:33

You've got the perfect pretext if she knows your new town. You need someone to show you around! Smile

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 31/12/2015 18:33

hope you hear back soon Grin

DancingWithWillard · 31/12/2015 18:33

Well done for being brave OP, now, anyone for Rioja

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 31/12/2015 18:36

I only have shoddy cava. Can I still join in? Grin

carrielou2007 · 31/12/2015 18:41

My prosecco is chilling once I've wrestled my three into bed and going to watch Downton finale again saddo me other people's romance much more exciting than my non-existing one Grin

MyGastIsFlabbered · 31/12/2015 18:43

Shamelessly marking place hoping for a reply!