To be pissed off about his hair?

[doitanyways]

Went away for weekend. He had promised me he'd get a haircut ready for interview on Monday (hasn't worked since April.) Just got home, no haircut. Which means no job, I could scream!!

[LIZS]

And his reaction ? Did he get any feedback or is that pointless as he would dismiss it anyway?

[doitanyways]

Just more experienced candidates, just thought I'd update as a couple of people seemed interested :)

[LIZS]

Well at least that sounds valid.

[partialderivative]

did he get the job?

[partialderivative]

sorry! Didn't read the whe thread

[Tartyflette]

Commiserations to you both, and hope he has better luck next time. It doesn't seem like it was a disaster, so perhaps it was a valuable exercise, anyway.

[MrsTerryPratchett]

Thanks for updating.

[Littlefluffyclouds81]

OP you really sound like you need some support. I realise approaching SS might be daunting. Not sure where you live but there are organisations (that are charities, so free to access) that offer support to carers. I did some work last year with the Carers Centre in Bath and they are a lifeline for people in your situation. Don't be ashamed to ask for support, being a carer is so emotionally draining (I've been one myself for an ex DP with MH issues, so I can understand your frustration).

[doitanyways]

Officially I am not a carer.

It is quite difficult to explain, but it is essentially the difference between needing and being able to accept help.

My brother would be horrified by the suggestion he is in need of some sort of intervention from SS. He hates me for suggesting he has autism, never mind for involving outside authorities

He's happy now. Sometimes a happy brother is harder than an anxious or depressed or angry one.