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To think I'm not alone with not falling for adverts

156 replies

Sh20 · 17/10/2015 09:00

I can't remember the last time I bought anything that was ever advertised. I get all most of my food from my able and Cole and local Indy organic shop. I go on holiday in interesting places that the average person wouldn't of heard of. When I need a new car I just get whatever my friend with a garage has a good deal on. With electrics I always just get something that has good reviews from somewhere like which.

I really can't think if the last time I bought anything branded. I do feel like I'm the only one in modern Britain.

I don't understand who falls for adverts?

OP posts:
saucony · 17/10/2015 11:04

YANBU, you are very special. :)

ilovesooty · 17/10/2015 11:18

Oh for goodness' sake. Why would the whole world want to know about every mundane opinion you have?

MardyBra · 17/10/2015 11:22

There's nothing wrong with being affected by advertising, although it helps if you have the ability to analyse and evaluate it objectively.

I recently renewed by car insurance. Instead of just accepting the quote from my current company, I remembered that there are lots of ads for comparison websites, so I went to one of those. I chose the one I had the most emotional connection with because they actually made me lol the first time I saw their meerkat ad. (I love a good pun). I saved over £100 and DS got a toy. I was totally influenced by the advertising but it was a win-win for everyone.

There is definitely an argument to be had about some of the aspirational/ lifestyle marketing in today's society, but a generic statement that it's wrong to fall for adverts is not cutting it.

MardyBra · 17/10/2015 11:23

"Oh for goodness' sake. Why would the whole world want to know about every mundane opinion you have?"

sooty if you take that argument to its logical conclusion, then nobody would post anything and MN would cease to be! Grin (I get what you're saying though!)

ilovesooty · 17/10/2015 11:25

Thanks Mardy

It's not a comment I'd normally make but in the case of this poster I've made an exception.

BigOCupOfTea · 17/10/2015 11:37

OP you started a thread about something you'd bought from Lidl Confused

So you clearly don't just shop at Able and Cole.

ilovesooty · 17/10/2015 11:42

Exactly Big

This thread got much more attention though...

JoySzasz · 17/10/2015 11:55

I don't know why some of you have got so angry? Grin
It isn't a really offensive troll is it?

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeG0es · 17/10/2015 11:58

I agree that you are cutting off your nose to spite your face if you actively ignore all advertising on principle. Pick and choose, use the information to kick start your own research, keep an awareness of what's out there, all good reasons to pay a bit of attention to adverts.

Bunbaker · 17/10/2015 12:04

Do you suck the joy out of everything? Your hand knitted, lentil weaving, worthy lifestyle sounds like a bundle of laughs. Perhaps, along the way could could have learned some grammar.

"might follow one of the national cycle routes, they have zero advertising behind them BTW."

The trans Pennine trail passes through our village. It is advertised all over the place.

I avoid advertising where I can because I find it annoying. I have adblocker on my laptop and record everything on commercial TV so I can zap through the adverts, but I am not so high and mighty that I can say that I am totally immune to advertising.

We also go on holiday to places where we can avoid the crowds, but that is because we don't like noisy, crowded places. We avoid all inclusive/kids clubs/evening entertainment destinations because they don't rock our boat, not because we think we are better than the masses, which you clearly do.

We don't all have independent organic shops on our doorstep either. I buy cars that have a good reputation for reliability, not as status symbols (only twats do that). We buy electrical goods for the same reasons.

I have never seen a completely own label, unbranded car, and even electrical goods are branded as are mobile phones. OH and DD own Samsung phones because they are good not because they have succumbed to advertising. OH is a techy geek and does a lot of research before buying modern technology.

Oh, and I work in the office supplies industry and can confirm that the own brand/unlabelled products that we sell are of a much poorer quality than the branded items. They are own brand/unbranded to meet price points.

Stop being so smug and superior.

Coconutty · 17/10/2015 12:05

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Janeymoo50 · 17/10/2015 12:06

I get most of my food from Sainsbugs, it's cheaper than Cole and Able (and nicer).

WallToWallBastards · 17/10/2015 12:07

My great grandma was born in Armenia, is she winning? She also tells people she's Iranian, original hipster I think.

JassyRadlett · 17/10/2015 12:14

I got rid of Able and Cole because of the number of trees they were cutting down to shove adverts through my door.

Good to see OP has fallen for Which?'s advertising. They do it really well, quite subtle, nice to see good practice rewarded.

RiceBurner · 17/10/2015 12:16

OP it's "HAVE HAVE HAVE HAVE HAVE" when using the past conditional. (And not "of".) So please can you learn the rule and stop murdering the English language?

Thanks.

Third conditional

Nature: unreal
Time: Past (so we are talking about a situation that was not so in the past.)
e.g. If you had warned me, I would not <strong>have</strong> told your father about that party.(But you didn't, and I have). 

So (in your OP) ...

"... average person wouldn't of heard of " (Should read, " have heard of ".)

ptumbi · 17/10/2015 12:17

Lol at going to 'undiscovered' holiday destinations (undiscovered except for the people who actually live there, obvs Grin)

I went to Croatia last year, expecting it to be totally unspoilt and undiscovered. It was undiscovered - by the Brits. Lots of Germans, Dutch, czech there though (and they were so much nicer to holiday beside than British)

And please read a book. A grammar book. It doesn't need miricles, or even miracles, to know the diffference between of and have.

Onthepigsback · 17/10/2015 12:27

Lol, op, you may not have fallen for mainstream advertising but you have fallen for some other sorts without realising it. I'd say I'm pretty advertising savvy but am not naive enough to think I'm not influenced left right and centre by messages about products (holiday locations etc) that I then buy to define who I am. I worked in advertising for years and was one of the people who sat around a table deciding how to manipulate people into thinking things about themselves based on every tiny choice they make (such as going on holidays to Armenia). YAB...naive.

sugar21 · 17/10/2015 12:43

Oh Armenia with the reconstructed Greco-Roman church at Garni
I am very knowledgeable about this Country, it was a former Soviet Republic but tis advertised in hols brochure


Kacie123 · 17/10/2015 12:46

Twist: this is all a stealth advert for Armenia.

sugar21 · 17/10/2015 12:48

Kacie Did you see the size of the guys in the Tongalese rugby team. Wonder who sponsors them

derxa · 17/10/2015 12:49

Well this year I've been to Tonga and Armenia I'm so suggestible I'm going to book trips to those places right now. Thanks hun xxx

MarshaBrady · 17/10/2015 12:50

I think the biggest coup is brands like A&C and Which can be thought about as non advertising, non marketing brands.

They'd be pretty happy with people falling for that.

sugar21 · 17/10/2015 12:52

Lolz @ derxa hunz

GoofyIsACow · 17/10/2015 13:01

TONGA

Just thought i'd throw that in...

LadyLuck81 · 17/10/2015 14:18

Re subscriptions: no SH but I asked for it and would have bought it for myself if it hadn't been a gift.

I think you are naive to think that you aren't affected my advertising and marketing.