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To wonder if religion/belief is really a choice?

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TheoriginalLEM · 12/10/2015 21:42

Please excuse my ramblings but i had this thought.

I would imagine that being "religious", be that Catholic, Muslim, Hindu or whatever is a choice, in as much as you choose your religion and or whether to follow it and to what degree.

But belief? What you actually truly believe in your heart of hearts - is there a choice in that?

I believe in God, am Catholic but not practising. I don't feel that i have ever made a conscious "choice" to believe in God and if i were to make an evidence based choice, well i probably wouldn't believe; but i do believe there is a God, i don't know what influence "he" has on my life and on those around me. I believe that "my" God is the same as the Gods of other religions. Its just the religion that is different, but the Gods are one and the same. I don't really know why i feel that. So whilst I believe in a Christian God, i believe that whoever other religions worship are a different version of the same God.

I don't know why - i just "know" and well, my reality is really all that counts to "me" isn't it. My world. my bubble, my perception. Just the same as all of us - it comes down to us as one single being, maybe that,s where i should be looking? If i was looking, that is.

Sorry none of that probably makes any sense outside my own head.

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capsium · 16/10/2015 11:15

noef a hospital has a chaplaincy. The chaplain will often visit and ask people if they want to receive his / her help. Ditto universities. Although adults can attend / not attend services on their own volition. Parents make these choices for their small children, since they have less automony generally and need help making informed choices of their own as they have less life experience.

redstrawberry10 · 16/10/2015 11:26

I could say the same regarding your reasons to change the law.

no, I want the law changed so no one gets special treatment.

So you don't view giving parents (& children at an appropriate age) choice over what worship provision children receive in school?

no, I don't. School is the not the appropriate venue for worship.

JasperDamerel · 16/10/2015 12:06

I think I might give up.

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