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Help me make this choice" (cat related) (title amended by MNHQ)

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LeftMyRidingCropInTheMortuary · 29/09/2015 19:35

Hi all,

I had a previous thread in AIBU about getting a cat - perhaps someone clever could post the link? The vast consensus was that i should re-home an older cat due to my circumstances:
I'm out 12hrs 5 days a week for work but at home evenings and weekends. I live alone in a spacious, quiet flat in a cul-de-sac with a large shared garden. I don't really go on holidays. There are some other cats in the area.

OK fine. So I went to the local rescue today and am now torn between 2 cats and need to decide: Both are 9yr old females with no health problems.

Cat A: Not used to other cats. Affectionate - rubbed head on my hand and licked & purred but doesn't like to be picked up. Was a tiny bit scratchy and hissy at one point.

Cat B: Nice & small. Clung to me for dear life - incredibly affectionate. Was like having a baby in a wrap-thing. Used to other cats.

The cat sanctuary people said either would be fine for me but I was surprised Cat B could be left alone for long periods. They have no particular concerns about Cat A with other cats - it just hasn't been tested yet!

I love them both already and am completely torn.
Any advice would be really appreciate, thank you.

OP posts:
LeftMyRidingCropInTheMortuary · 05/10/2015 20:39

Update: Cat B (Lily), the more clingy one got adopted today, according to the rescue's facebook page!

Yey! :-)

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Senpai · 05/10/2015 20:42

Cats aren't my thing either, mostly because they've all bitten or scratched me for no reason. But I like looking at them and it makes me happy to see an animal get a good home.

(Yes, I'm sure I misread their body language, but it didn't endear them to me any)

Gabilan · 05/10/2015 21:12

One of mine has just come in wet and filthy. She's happily drying herself off on me. For some reason I think it's cute

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