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To wear leggings to work

216 replies

parrotsummer · 24/09/2015 18:35

We have a uniform and it's just a tunic black or navy trousers. Most people wear leggings and trainers. One woman has been complaining saying it's not professional! AIBU to think if they want professionals they need to pay professional salary not £6.90 an hour!

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ExConstance · 25/09/2015 14:03

I work for a charity who value their staff - no one here earns less than 1.5 x minimum wage (including travel time) and the staff get the top mileage payment IR allow without taxation and some other benefits. If the local authority payment rates were improved we could do better still. I'm very much in favour or union involvement in care as many care staff are paid low amounts to ensure the directors of the companies they work for have high incomes.

Parrotsummer - the care certificate is now mandatory for new entrants and good employers have always funded NVQ/QCF levels 2&3 - level three will help you get on nursing or other degree. If you are earning less than the minimum wage when your travel times are factored in your employers are committing a criminal offence and should be reported to HMRC - they would also be required to backdate any monies owing to you because of the breach.

WorzelsCornyBrows · 25/09/2015 14:05

I live in leggings outside work, but alway, always under a dress or skirt. I see them more as thick tights rather than trousers.

Can you compromise and wear jodhpur-type trousers?

margeys · 25/09/2015 14:09

Yes being clean is important. Beyond that, carers need to be dressed in comfortable and practical clothes for what is, a physical job. That is all. Anything else is snobbery.

Quiero · 25/09/2015 14:47

I've just been out shopping at a large retail park and had a good nosy at what others were wearing. Loads of women were wearing leggings, all with longer style shirts or tunics and they all looked absolutely fine. In fact a few of them looked absolutely stunning.

parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 15:03

Woodley, caring is not a profession.

A profession is a field that is specialised such as law or medicine.

It is not about how much someone wants to do it. The fact is, just above minimum wage is not a profession.

No one working for our company needs an NQV - good, as I don't have one!

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Greengardenpixie · 25/09/2015 15:09

I think leggings are fine if they are used like tights. I happily wear them with a dress above the knee and even under a skirt for extra warmth. Few people can get away with them with just a tunic [ unless it covers hips and thigh] tops that are not covering bums except the very young, like my dd! (8) and (4) who wears them with a t-shirt and looks amazing.

HeadDreamer · 25/09/2015 15:14

I used profession in quotes because to me people in it are governed by a professional body. Like chartered accountants, chartered engineers, lawyers and doctors.

I'm a software engineer and strictly speaking it's not a profession. You don't need any qualifications or professional membership to practice as one.

parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 15:15

And sorry but I'm not wearing jodhpurs, which I'd bake and boil in and would take ages to dry, because one woman who works for us who sounds like one person on this thread claims leggings don't look 'professional.'

We are not a profession. We are paid by the minute, we require no qualifications (yes some companies stipulate this; good luck with that as it's not the most sought-after role!) and leggings, trousers makes no difference (other in terms of cost and comfort.)

Here are the things you need to do my job well.

You need to be reliable. It's not like other jobs where you don't turn up and someone has to wait longer for their food or longer on the phone or has to wait until Monday. If we don't turn up, elderly and disabled people are left sitting in their own waste and urine, hungry and cold and unwashed. Our jokes aren't 9-5; it's easy thinking turning up is easy but actually we have to start at 6 in the morning and then might finish at 10 at night then up again the next day.

You have to think quickly. You have to decide whether to call a relative, an ambulance, work out what to do in weird situations like when someone's no clean bedding and no washing machine (put her on towels then take sheets home to own house in that case to wash) or when someone's hair is so matted you can't get a comb through as its gone into dreadlocks (we slathered in conditioner then wrapped her head in cling film then went back later and washed it.) Sometimes you have to deal with aggressive clients or even relatives.

You have to deal with dementia and that's always difficult - I've been punched and slapped and called names and I get that's not the lady's fault but it's still upsetting!

Death is the hardest and they're not all old. Sometimes though we go to funerals and there is barely anyone there but us. Not because they weren't loved but they outlived their loved ones Sad But sometimes they aren't old and when you see children crying because their mum died it is hard.

OMG there are AMAZING parts to my job! When we washed and blow dried that lady's hair and she smiled for the first time in weeks, when you get a really sincere thanks - most of our lot are just lovely and when I don't feel like going out I see the first gentleman and he always shouts at me then smiles and says 'you, yeah you!' as he clocks who I am! It's amazing!

But I'm sorry, I work bloody long hours and for not much pay; I NEED comfort!!

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HeadDreamer · 25/09/2015 15:47

Don't worry what that narrow minded woman thinks. Wear your leggings with pride. It's what you prefer to wear.

TheStripyGruffalo · 25/09/2015 16:15

Leggings never, ever, look good on larger ladies. I wish my colleagues who wear them with a t-shirt would look in a mirror! I speak as a larger lady, I only ever wear leggings as pyjama bottoms and never wear them out of the house.

parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 16:51

I'm not a "larger lady" but maybe they don't care how they look Confused

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FyreFly · 25/09/2015 17:03

I have some fantastic black wet-look leather leggings as well as some stunning printed ones with bionic armour designs on. They are most definitely outerwear - I'm not hiding them away for anyone!

Whilst I accept they're probably not what you'd call business attire and I'd never wear mine to the office, if your job stipulates casual / comfortable clothing and you're not flashing your arse then I see no issue with leggings.

TriJo · 25/09/2015 17:04

When I wear them for work it's as a replacement for tights with a dress on colder days during the winter. I can't imagine wearing them as trousers for work.

margeys · 25/09/2015 17:05

I am fat. I wear what I want. I wouldn't care what you thought.

elementofsurprise · 25/09/2015 19:02

OP - is there a dress version of your uniform? Rather than the tunic?

When I worked as a carer I hated the trousers we had to wear - artificial fabric and sweaty (as were the tunics). In hindsight I should have gone for the dress and could have worn leggings underneath.

Might that be more comfortable?

parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 19:05

No there isn't a dress version. I wouldn't want to wear it even if there was. It wouldn't be at all practical.

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Sagethyme · 25/09/2015 19:10

Imho tights are the invention of the devil, they fall around my nether regions and bloody chaff, and its sooooo unattractive when trying discreetly to pull bloody things up, leggings are comfy and practical and under skirt/ dress noone would notice....well unless i'm wearing sandles or no socks! And leggings stay up, always a plus!

MyFavouriteClintonisGeorge · 25/09/2015 19:12

Well I'm with you, OP.

If you wanted a compromise, though, slim-fitting trousers in cotton jersey like these or these would be good, though I appreciate these examples are not cheap.

And you are right, if pay is low don't expect people to spend a fortune on their work clothes.

CatsAndCatsAndCats · 25/09/2015 19:25

i use to work in a loanshop, i was behind glass and i once wore black jeans to work and the area manager had a go at me, i was thinking why im behind glass nobody can see my bottom half and they paid minim wage

Shallishanti · 25/09/2015 20:36

what about jogging bottoms? comfortable, stretchy, cheap, and trousers not leggings
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parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 20:38

I don't really see jogging bottoms as 'more' professional than leggings to be honest but they take longer to dry.

I was interested in people's views - some legging hate out there! - but I will change if management inform me leggings are not to be worn which they won't as they wear them as well!

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Shallishanti · 25/09/2015 20:43

you are probably right about the drying but if you had 3 pairs @£6 you could have one in the wash, one drying and one on
not professional in the 'office wear' sense of the term but it would avoid the issues mentioned above (visible underwear or worse)

parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 20:44

I can easily get through 3 pairs in a day Shall

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parrotsummer · 25/09/2015 20:45

To be honest if my underwear is visible, it is visible.

Doesn't bother me. I like leggings. It isn't visible as far as I know but if it is I really, honestly, don't care.

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