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AIBU?

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To be fed up of hearing "oh my kids won't eat anything like that, I don't know how you do it"I

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Emillee1 · 24/09/2015 17:28

Basically i feed my kids a healthy diet (why wouldn't I?.....) and lately when I've had my neices round for lunch/dinner they've refused to eat what's on offer. When my SiL has turned up to collect them she told me that no wonder her kids wouldn't eat what i'd made as it wasn't typical "kiddy" food and that she's very surprised that I could "make" my children eat it.

Well to be fair her kids have existed on junk food since they were old enough to chew, and I can remember how on occasion my niece would be sat in her pram holding a burger dripping in fat, wrapped in a napkin happily chomping away and the tray in her pram was covered in chips!

Anyway this has happened a couple of times now and I'm getting rather annoyed with it. She asks me to mind her kids, which I'm happy to do but if they don't like what I've made for tea then it's tough, so why am I made to feel guilty? Without meaning to come across as one of THOSE mothers, my children's diet is very important to me. I was an overweight child and i'm still a stone or so overweight now as an adult and I put that down to the fact that as a child myself I was allowed to gorge myself on crap, my parents didn't know where the oven was and my meals were ready meals and convieinience foods, and I didn't want that for my kids. They get their "treats" an overall have a balance diet but I'm looked down on by my so called family for not serving up chicken nuggets and chips every night, so AIBU to feel a little pi**ed off?

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Icouldbesogoodforyou · 24/09/2015 21:19

YANBU in being annoyed that in doing family members a favour, they moan about the food you provide. Talk to your SIL about that.

YABU in attributing your being overweight (even a little) in adulthood to what you were fed in childhood. Healthy eating and everyday knowledge of nutrition is completely different now to what it was when you were a child.

Huge numbers of adults were fed 'crap' in childhood because it wasn't seen as 'crap' then. It was just food that everyone ate.

Adults blaming their current food choices on their childhood even though they are much better educated about food now are abdicating responsibility.

CrumbledFeta · 24/09/2015 21:31

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