DTD and found out he had shaved legs and tribal tatoos - run away?

[Margaritapracataz]

I'm dating someone a bit younger than me.

Now found out he has a lot of tribal tatoos on one side. I just don't get them, it shows no creatively or individuality and I do think less of him now.

Once I'd got over that I realised that he shaves his legs. I've never heard of a guy doing this before.

Run a mile or are these normal things these days?

green underpants once put me off a man i was seeing they were briefs!

My friend shaves his legs, and armpits. He says he feels more hygienic, as he plays tennis a lot.

He looks better than me in shorts...

I couldn't be with a man with shaved armpits.

No, I wouldn't like the tattoos.
I could get over the shaved legs but tattoos no matter how they look I have a instant 'eww' reaction if I have to touch them. I do know that is incredibly weird though.

(Sings):

"I've got two legs from my hips to the ground, and

when I move them they walk around, and

when I lift them they climb the stairs, and

when I shave them they ain't got hairs!"

My BIL shaves his legs and I believe my DSis is quite happy as far as sex goes - but then he has no tribal tattoos. Maybe it's the combination that's bad?

My Exh used to shave his legs, back, chest, pubic hair, he let me wax him too. He said it looked better in the Gym. He also has a tattoo, not tribal though, just my name stupid arse

How did you see the tattoos if the lights were off?

at brightnearly

I know loads of triathletes that shave their legs. It's not an aesthetic thing, it's a speed thing. I've spent a fair amount of time sharing accommodation and got over seeing adult men hovering over sinks with razors and their leg in the air a long time ago. And these were serious hardcore types that didn't give a shit what they looked like, just performance.

AlisonWunderland There is a country song, sung by a woman (I need to add because of this thread) called "Did I shave my legs for this?"

I am now imagining the man's version "Did I shave my balls for this?"

But the OP isn't saying she doesn't like tattoos, she's saying she discovered he'd bought into an unimaginative trend rather than express any individuality and that was off-putting for her. It might have been different if he'd had a pair of elephants ears over his stomach and a trunk running down his cock, etc.

I personally fund all male vanity a turn-off.

Mileend2bermondsey www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2460309-To-not-see-this-girl-again-due-to-her-looks

I suspect tribal-tat guy with shaved legs can do much better for a girlfr than OP.

I don't mind the leg shaving or daft tattoos but if he had character socks/underwear that would put me right off.

'Once I'd got over that I realised that he shaves his legs. I've never heard of a guy doing this before.'

Really? It's fairly common amongst serious atheletes who cycle or swim competitively. I know several men that do, including a couple in their 40s.
But you shagged someone you barely know, which is way too weird for me.

Shame on the strumpet!

Well, let him find someone who won't judge him on his appearance?
FWIW mileend, I see the difference in your thread as opposed to this one.

I'd be more bothered about the quality of the sex if I was wanting a casual shag.

I'm not sure it's much of a shocker that the OP doesn't know many serious athletes who cycle or swim competitively mischief perhaps you live in some kind of testosterone-charged olympic village-on-sea

Well, we are a bit of a hotspot for Gay Pride dos and cycling, it must be said.

And tattoo parlours.

Why are some of you calling you the OP shallow because she had sex & now isn't sure if she fancies him? This isn't a pride & prejudice forum is it?

I don't think YABU at all; if he was amazing in the sack it could've been a good trade off but it doesn't sound like he was?

Ditch him OP. He's not your cuppa. And no you're not judgemental. I think if he were a stellar guy, a diamond, you'd overlook the tribal tats and shaving. He could be a swimmer or cyclist or maybe it's his look. Who knows. But it rubs you the wrong way.

I wouldn't date a man with tats. I never have.