This may come uncross very un PC, but i am asking so i do the right thing, so please consider that in your replies!
I work in an industry employing people working with children. I sometimes employ gay men, no problem at all.
Would it be unacceptable to ask a gay man to try not to be camp, when working? Some of the parents don't like it (That may be a discussion for another day, the rights and wrongs of that, but that is how it is right now).
Is it possible to not be camp? I know lots of gay men who can camp it up for a laugh or whatever, and i know lots of gay men who aren't camp at all....and i definitely wouldn't want to offend anyone, so if it would be terrible to ask in a nice way? Or completely wrong and i shouldn't mention it at all. (Even if the person would potentially get more work?)