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To thinks u neighbour is extremely rude?

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Cracendale · 07/08/2015 18:42

Just moved into converted house, im below a guy.
Twice he was over knocked on my door, by this I mean he will ring my bell even though he has access to my flat door because his is in the same building.
So he rings my bell, then again, then let's himself in and knocks on my door, then says something like. "Hello" then rings my bell again.
The two times before he did this was for nothing important, it was to discuss a lock change the HA doing.
It wasn't a nesscary conversation and wasn't urgent like he made out by ringing my door like he was police

He has just done this again
I'm in bed and just had eye surgery and he woke me up.
I have one of those bells that if you leave your finger on it it will ring forever
He pressed it 5 times and knocked on my door
I'm in complete silence
I don't know if he is stupid or something to not understand im either out or sleeping since I'm in complete silence I don't know

But now I'm pissed off, I'm in pain from surgery last time he did this I was grieving for my mother.
I don't know him for him to be ringing down my door like this
Nothing he would say will be important because I do not know him
He knows. Nothing about me
If he had to give me anything he can leave it on the side because he lives in the same building.

Aibu ?
When he rings again I want to tell him to not ever ring my door like that and if I ignore the door go away
How do I put this politely?

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MrsDeVere · 07/08/2015 19:59

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blackrabbitwhiterabbit · 07/08/2015 20:00

Aaaahh, the PC crew are out with their pitchforks tonight!

DixieNormas · 07/08/2015 20:00

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msgrinch · 07/08/2015 20:00

I didn't see the post before it was deleted, so just going off the "is he special needs?" comment. I'm sure mnhq can explain why if you think it's unfair/unjust.

blackrabbitwhiterabbit · 07/08/2015 20:01

She wasn't "pointing," Mrs.

DixieNormas · 07/08/2015 20:01

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crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:01

Ive just reported you Dixie. Im sick and tired of people "assuming" things in a nasty manner on here.

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:03

You are being extremely nasty Dixie.

quietbatperson · 07/08/2015 20:03

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msgrinch · 07/08/2015 20:04

No pitchfork here, the pp asked why the post was deleted, I gave my opinion why. Mnhq have obviously decided it needed to be removed.

MrsDeVere · 07/08/2015 20:05

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crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:05

Your 80 year old mother? How rude are you also Quietbat!

blackrabbitwhiterabbit · 07/08/2015 20:05

Yes, a teacher. We can still say a child has 'special needs.' It's not harsh, or wrong. It's practically the same as 'additional needs.' Surely it's better than saying someone is 'remedial', for example?

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:06

Same old nasty ones huh... Same old, same old.

DixieNormas · 07/08/2015 20:06

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crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:08

You never miss an opportunity to turn things around do you? Awful people, truly awful. You make it your lifes work some of you to be so damn rude and nasty. Very sad.

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:09

Spitting hairs, absolutely nasty nasty people.

DixieNormas · 07/08/2015 20:09

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bloodyteenagers · 07/08/2015 20:11

Is he a prick?
Does he have a prick?

Do you now see what was wrong, and how using is instead of does changes the entire context of a sentence

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:12

Because you could have said... ooops, i get the gyst of what you're saying but last week it was deemed disallowed by the pc council, if there is one. There was absolutely no need to be so undermining and nasty.

GiddyOnZackHunt · 07/08/2015 20:13

Ooh that's a good illustration bloody I couldn't think of one

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 20:13

Oh for god sake! it came from a nice place. To do this to a person is nasty. It just goes to show what some people are like. Sad, very sad.

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