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To think my SIL over stepped the mark by assuming we'll be inviting her parents to our wedding?

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lalalemon · 03/08/2015 19:38

We're getting married next September so ages away, but still feel she had no right to even ask let alone assume it will actually be happening!

She is DP's brothers girlfriend, we'd popped in to see MiL who they live with when she asked us if we'd be inviting her parents and six brothers to the wedding 'because you've not got much family have you?'

I've never met said parents/brothers, nor do I know their names! DP has met them for all of about 5 minutes! They are mighty fine chavs and live bloody miles away anyway!

Really put us on the spot, I just kind of went 'oh ermm, we've not decided who we're inviting yet' wish I'd said 'you're lucky your being invited you moron!

Obviously we won't be inviting the rest of her family!

OP posts:
lalalemon · 04/08/2015 07:25

Well I don't have a big tv so seems pretty posh to me!

And I'm not demonising anyone! I guess she's just made me so pissed off because of her awful behaviour than I can only imagine her family are or the same ilk! One of her at the wedding is bad enough!

OP posts:
Heels99 · 04/08/2015 09:37

They are not your in laws! You are not married!

Chesntoots · 04/08/2015 09:54

I would love to meet a mighty chav. The ones I have met have been disappointingly mediocre...

LazyLohan · 04/08/2015 09:58

Mighty chav should be Mighty Mouse's new sidekick.

hhhhhhh · 04/08/2015 10:00

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Lavenderice · 04/08/2015 10:51

I call my DP's family the in-laws even though we're not married. What else am I supposed to call them?

Heels99 · 04/08/2015 11:39

Boyfriends family is what you call them.

FryOneFatManic · 04/08/2015 13:35

I called DP's family the in-laws until they died. After all DP and I have been together over 28 years so I'm long past calling them the "boyfriend's family"

Pennybun4 · 04/08/2015 13:45

She's be wanting her bruvs to be pageboys next. YANBU

Inforabumpyride · 04/08/2015 13:51

I don't blame you OP I wouldn't invite them either , very rude of her to say that

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