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is it time to stop with the 'girls' day/night out shit?

215 replies

FrankietheSquealer · 11/07/2015 11:04

Its patronising

OP posts:
Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 18:55

It's like the old days round here, MN isn't MN without a thread about people who hate Cod and people who think she's funny and irreverent. And four other people saying what the fuck is a COD.

All we need now is FrannyandZooeys 10/10 thread and it'll be all 2007 up in here

MaryBerrysEyelashes · 11/07/2015 18:56

Oh god. She was fun. And her wnaky baskets.

Reginafalangie · 11/07/2015 18:56

Ahhh I liked 2007 although I preferred 2009. I was a lurker with bad internet connection until then.

Reginafalangie · 11/07/2015 18:58

Wnaky baskets!

I assume you meant wanky baskets but then that doesn't sound right either Confused

PurpleDaisies · 11/07/2015 18:59

What's a wanky basket? Is it related to the penis beaker?

Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 19:02

It's a treasure basket for babies. For heuristic play.

I possibly have one.

NickiFury · 11/07/2015 19:02

Penis Beaker; the hysteria over that deeply unfunny pile of nonsense beggared belief. Now THAT would never have happened in 2007, or even 2009.

DarrellRivers · 11/07/2015 19:03

wnaky baskets being lowered out of a window.....

bowlofbaconpasta · 11/07/2015 19:04

Hmmm.

I don't think there's anything wrong with the term per se , it's just a description. sometimes having a night out with only women is awesome.

I am hoping to arrange a night out with a few female friends whom I share a common cultural interest with and I respect as people and I hope to enjoy their conversation (which will probably involve the common cultural interest). I wouldn't want any male friends attending.

My individual experience though is the phrase has been hijacked.

when individuals use this, there is a big difference between rhetoric and reality (a bit like the kind of night out in the Office which David Brent organises).

Whenever I've had a potential "woop woop Girls Time" presented to me it inevitably is really, really shit and despite promises of female solidarity it always is a bit flat.

It's the kind of thing a netm**ms user would say you know what I mean hunny babe?

Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 19:05

And the pottery penis

And the refusal to buy jeans from Gap

And the thread about the Xmas party, with photos

So, anyone been to Norfolk recently?

MaryBerrysEyelashes · 11/07/2015 19:08

Regina is very aware of "cod" who hadn't posted since 2007/8 yet claims not to remember anything of that era.

Reginafalangie · 11/07/2015 19:14

Nope didn't say I didn't remember that era I said I liked 2007 and but preferred 2009.

MaryBerrysEyelashes · 11/07/2015 19:17

Look Regina, I am sorry you don't like me But i don't quite know what I'm supposed to do about it.

Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 19:18

Thing is you can generally tell from the title if it's a fishy thread or not. Just don't look.

AnyoneForTennis · 11/07/2015 19:19

Oh, is this a pbp?

Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 19:22

I don't know what a pbp is.

Urban dictionary tells me it's a pain in both testicles for no apparent reason.

itsmine · 11/07/2015 19:22

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

EmmanuelleMumsnet · 11/07/2015 19:23

Evening all,

Just a reminder to keep things civil and stay clear of personal attacks.

A link to our Talk guidelines, should anyone need a reminder...

Reginafalangie · 11/07/2015 19:23

Nothing you can do really. I suppose you could be more mindful of the threads you post but then again plenty of people like them so I wouldn't want them to go without.

Tbh I feel much better for telling you how I feel it was quite theraputic. Maybe there should be a thread where posters can say how much and why they dislike another. You could start it Grin

AnyoneForTennis · 11/07/2015 19:23

Pbp.... Mumsnet acronym for 'previously banned poster'

Pantone363 · 11/07/2015 19:25

Na itsmine, Cod is like the MN version of the Kray twins. Everyone and their uncle Jimmy hung around with her once.

MaryBerrysEyelashes · 11/07/2015 19:25

I'm glad you feel better.

NickiFury · 11/07/2015 19:27

Grin such a thread would be utter carnage Regina. I'm in!

CrystalHaze · 11/07/2015 19:27

90% of this thread makes no sense to me Confused

MardyBra · 11/07/2015 19:29

Ah. I'm sure the OP is a harmless kitten really. At least Daftpunk's gone.