is it time to stop with the 'girls' day/night out shit?

[FrankietheSquealer]

Its patronising

you can't like everyone on here though so what's the point just ignore

No idea what begging is??

I happen to have a bit of spare time and I thought I would tell you what I thought of you. Adoration is far from what I feel more sort of confusion and pity.

Negging

thanks for sparing it though.
I am transformed!!

I don't have a problem with this thread in particular but I do find myself a bit at all the fawning and competitive enthusiasm for threads that if posted by someone else would be considered nothing more than mediocre.

oh christ alive

Who is custardo?

COD

Am I the only person who doesn't have a clue who op is and is just watching all this in bewildered fascination?

I wish Custardo would come back. Now she was entertaining.

Wow.

Shots fired as my 17yo DS would say.

I thought it was an amusing thread tbh but that obv makes me one of Cod's groupies

Nicky do you remember Breeze? the original publican? And whymummy? Ah those were the days

Was custardo goady....or toady? I don't like goady.

You're not alone in that, Puntastic.

I confess I don't remember those names. Been here a while but I never really was a "joiner" back then so didn't really notice names. Just a couple that stuck with me.

Negging: commonly found on a girls night out. The act of subtlety insulting a person in the hopes their fragile self esteem will make them pay you some attention. Mostly committed by spotty fans of minecraft hopeful of their first shag

Oh god no having a good rant at somebody is good for the soul and due to being housebound today I haven't seen anyone in RL that has pissed me off enough for a rant.

Custy gave great no-nonsense teen advice. And low carb recipes

Well this went well

I have never heard of "negging". Maybe I am just too old to going on any nights out, "girls" or otherwise as negging on me would get them at best, a swift ejection from my personal space and at worst they'd be wearing a cocktail.

Well I am not negging as I was far from subtle, I don't play mine craft, haven't had spots for 20 years and I am not lacking on the shag front. However thank you for the explanation

Regina - your attack on OP is over the top.

The OP seems harmless to me. The thread is relatively light and not goady.

So custardo would tell you where you were going wrong with your teen, make you cry then give you a fab recipe for carb free moussaka? She sounds great and helpful at the same time

Why does this bother you?
I am friends with groups of women - say, my post natal group.
A group of school mums.
Why is this such a problem?

Yes inkanta it is OTT.