to be cross that DH has taken himself on holiday for a couple of days without saying

[fluffybunnies246]

I only found out after I text him to ask where he was.

He said he needed to get away to 'clear his head' so has taken a couple of days off work and gone to the seaside. I'm here with the kids.

Found out last night he'd cheated on me. I was extremely upset, then we agreed to try and work things out. But now he's just b***d off!!!!

He seems to think that this is ok behaviour. He's said 'sorry'. It's not the first time he's just taken himself off. He said he'll see us Friday night. I'm thinking that actually, perhaps the kids and I deserve some time away too and maybe we should go camping for the weekend. Which is partly me being immature and partly the kids love camping and it's really, really hot in our bedrooms.

Well done Fluffy. You tried, you gave him the chance, you were generous and open minded and he threw it all back in your face. It isn't your doing.

It's a great weekend for camping, make it a new adventurous beginning for you and the kids.

Where are you off camping?

So he's taken all his important documents and most of his clothes?

If so, he has left you without actually telling you. That would make him a big pike of gutless wonder shitbag.

Well done op, you have made a great decision.
Let him go now and get on with your new excitubg life with none of his nonsense in it.
I took my kids away just after I found out about the ow, it was really cathartic and prepared me for my new life as a lone parent.
I still look back on that holiday as the best thing I ever did, very empowering.

As he had taken all his stuff, let your camping trip be your first holiday with your new family, forget your ex and move on. Stay strong.

Good for you Fluffy.

How are you doing Fluffy?