ttwk i was born with a plastic spoon in my mouth.. im not educated i did not have a good education.that has a knock on effect of how my life will be its very likely i will only ever be in min wage jobs.
I am willing to bet any sum you wish that I had a worse start in life than you did. But I am not poor now. I also went to a deprived primary school but I am educated, because I educated myself. When all the other kids we smoking and doing drugs and joining gangs, I was down the library.
Too many people fuck up the their lives and blame their background, because it's easier than confronting their own failings.
Yes, people have to bring up disabled kids, but I know someone who does that and is wealthy. If you have access to the internet to moan about how poor you are, you have access to the internet to trade on ebay, start an online business etc. And if you don't know how to do that, then get on Youtube and learn.
As for the idiot who used the Royal Family as an example perpetuation of wealth, then I did say words like 1% and vast majority. The Royal family are not a typical case.
I agree that social mobility is poor, and one of the reasons for that is a benefits system that enables it.
We don't accept child abusers using their own abusive childhood as an excuse for their behaviour. We wouldn't accept a rapist's plea of "well my dad was a rapist" as an excuse. We should not accept "I'm poor because I come from a poor family." Plenty of people do climb out of poverty, and plenty of kids move from middle class childhoods into drugs and skid row. We all have choices.
I fully accept that you have better opportunities if you come from a wealthy background. My kids went to a great school and had lots of opportunities, and so far they've grabbed them. But no one's future it is set in stone and the attitude on MN is that you might as well give up before you even try.