I agree tobysmum but that nastiness started when a poster became abusive by calling me "entitled" when I said I had kept my cats after I went onto benefits.
I am a Carer, I don't get to go out, I don't have holidays, I dont have Sky TV with oodles of channels, I don't have new clothes or shop in Waitrose etc.
I DO get nice new things regularly.by being part of a customer review programme for Amazon. So I am currently using very pricy nail polish which I didn't pay for....but no doubt people will look and judge "ooh shiny nails, how can she afford those on benefits?"
I like music which is free thanks to radio, a bit of gardening (when I get time) and my rescue cats which came to me when I was in work and which have benefitted my son in his communication with the world. But I am "entitled" for having them because my life is now so different and much poorer than when I was in work... I am not living the life of Riley.
When I was in work I paid a lot of tax, it never occurred to me to resent those whose lives were difficult. I would certainly never suggested to those people that they send their pets away, for some that's what makes their lives worthwhile. I was happy with my life, I didn't need to resent others or think them "entitled".
This poster STILL has not suggested where these cats could go (or indeed all the other cats/dogs which belong to people out of work) or addressed the fact that the rescues are overflowing. Consequently I suspect this was posted to be goady and for no other reason.
I am now hiding this thread as I am fed up with it all and I have lots to do over the next few days. Mostly hospital appointments and school meetings, whi h is why I currently cannot work.