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Public nipple licking on holiday?

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Boysclothes · 15/06/2015 16:21

I'm on my hols at a naice AI family resort. I've got a bloody stream of AIBUs to post but I'll try and confine myself to one a day.

So basically this hotel has some private swim up rooms. They are dotted around but a lot face the main thoroughfare, so you are just feet away from a lone couple sunbathing and swimming in their private pool.

DH and I were promenading earlier with DS who is three. Couple about four feet away from us in their private bit. We are all very close. She is topless. He exits their room, gets on the sunbed next to her, leans over and pinches one of her nipples and sucks the other one!!

Now I'm not a prude, I don't think, but WTF!!!! DH shouted "oy mate, we've got a kid here!" And they gave us weak smiles and by then we had walked past.... Is doing stuff like that literally a few feet from a three year old OK? I don't think DH should have said anything really but I was shocked. DH is a total prude so he was probably having an internal crisis. AIBU to think keep your nipple licking to yourself?

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Boysclothes · 15/06/2015 17:05

Well we definitely saw. Just more than we bargained for! I could not have been more shocked if he was fingering her. There was a child! Right there!

Anyway good to know I wasn't BU. DH says I haven't given enough explicit detail as it was totally shocking but I run the risk of being called troll if I do so we'll leave it there. I'll update tomorrow with my AIBU about pushchair positioning at the pool.

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Gottagetmoving · 15/06/2015 17:07

YANBU at all. OP has already said it's private as in outsiders cannot attend,..but people there can. Never mind all the 'shouldnt be looking' comments, THEY shouldn't be indulging in sexual activity in view of other people.

vindscreenviper · 15/06/2015 17:07

I had to google to check what a swim up room in an AI hotel might look like, this was the first image.
Doesn't look remotely private to me, promenading a 3 yo in front of those rooms will certainly get you an eyeful of whatever is going on in front of them!

ggggllll · 15/06/2015 17:08

Shockers · 15/06/2015 17:09

The worst thing that happened on the AI holiday I went on was somebody smoking on one of the sunbeds near the pool. After a few pointed glances from those around her, she moved to the furthest sunbed, close to the sea. It was an activity holiday though, so everyone was quite healthily minded.

I'm quite shocked at the plant pot thing, but less so at the nipple licking... sunshine, cocktails by your own pool... he probably forgot himself for a moment. All that said, I wouldn't want to actually see that!

ludovica · 15/06/2015 17:10

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Shockers · 15/06/2015 17:11

Oh... there was more then? We really need the full details to comment further...

LittleBearPad · 15/06/2015 17:13

It makes no odds that there was a three year old there. You just don't do that in public and they are in public.

Weebirdie · 15/06/2015 17:13

Honestly i love AI Holidays. But i didnt think anyone could have seen worse than the time i watched (for a good 20 min) a rather robust older gent get his head and arm wedged in the sleeve of his t-shirt (the spanish bar man cut him out in the end)

See thats the kind of think I cant not laugh at and Im always in trouble because of it.

vindscreenviper · 15/06/2015 17:13

at the 'shouldn't be looking' comments.

May I suggest modesty blinkers for your next stroll op? (I've just invented them but they do sound quite Edwardian, therefore very suitable when promenading)

limitedperiodonly · 15/06/2015 17:13

Why are people finding it hard to believe that this couple were being a bit lairy?

They are on holiday, where people let their hair down because they feel anonymous and it's an all-inclusive resort where alcohol will be available round the clock.

I doubt they'd do it in their garden at home in front of the neighbours.

I can well believe these people were inappropriate and the OP and her DH weren't leering.

It's not even as if they need to get a room. They already have one.

Hexenbiest · 15/06/2015 17:14

We used to go promenading at Brighton Sea front - every were else it was going for a walk or a stroll - something about the walk along the sea front and then down the pier suggested that word to us.

pleb that I am never come across idea of private swim up rooms - google and they vary wildly in privacy levels looking at pics.

Still I'd be a bit taken back to see that kind of thing in an openly visible area so YABNU to be bit shocked.

Still bit of a mistake to point it out to the 3 year old. We've manage to walk past shagging teenagers on way back from cinema via a local nature reserve/park - 6 usually very observant little eyes and they all missed it - far enough away no noise thank god - we just looked at each other said nothing and walked past a bit quicker.

Waitingfordolly · 15/06/2015 17:15

I'm not getting to go abroad this year, so this thread is my opportunity to vicariously "enjoy" the thrills of AI, please carry on!

Weebirdie · 15/06/2015 17:15

They are in a private area and you looked for long enough to see him leave the room walk to the sun bed lay down then lick her nipple?
You shouldn't have been looking in the first place.

They weren't t in a private area, they were in full public view due to the bad design of the swim up rooms.

AdventureBe · 15/06/2015 17:16

That'll be why it's called the promenade, you know "we all like to walk along the prom prom prom..." Hexenbiest. It is old fashioned but it's a perfectly legitimate English word.

CaptainSwan · 15/06/2015 17:17

It's hardly the fault of the hotel what people choose to do in their rooms/pools! That's like saying it's the hotels fault if the guests use the bidet as the toilet because people expected a toilet to be there from what was written in the brochure.

Yes, guests may have expected a completely private pool where they couldn't be seen but that would have obviously not been the case when they got there and could see it, so they should adjust their behaviour accordingly.

YANBU op, it's disgraceful. And good for you to go on a promenade!

Weebirdie · 15/06/2015 17:17

I could not have been more shocked if he was fingering her.

Thud!

MrsNextDoor · 15/06/2015 17:18

They weren't on the prom! And if I take a walk down the prom...well...its a walk! Perhaps though Promenading should be brought back. Everyone dressed in their Sunday best...hats with streaming ribbons, scrubbed faces and new flowers in me hat...wouldn't it be luverly!

AdventureBe · 15/06/2015 17:19

Hexenbiest was talking about promenading at Brighton....

vindscreenviper · 15/06/2015 17:20

Don't forget the modesty blinkers for the little 'uns though Mrs

MrsNextDoor · 15/06/2015 17:21

Adventure I know.

Vindscreen yes...good point. I'd best get an extra wide bonnet for myself too...

TeacupTravels · 15/06/2015 17:23

Oh I'd love a holiday where we could do that kind of thing.... In private!

ExitPursuedByABear · 15/06/2015 17:27

Nothing wrong with a promenade.

StarsInTheNightSky · 15/06/2015 17:28

The plant pot, sorry to derail for a minute OP. DH and I were waiting in the main lobby for the mini bus to pick us up to go scuba diving. It was at a supposedly very very naice (and expensive) resort in the Caribbean. The lobby was huge, open plan and mostly open air, and had these hugeplant pots (two feet tall by about four foot diameter with various palms in. I turned around after hearing grunting (I kid you not) and there was a guy with his shorts down, sitting with his arse hanging over the rim of the flowerpot,tackle on full display! He noticed us gaping and said "you didn't see this man, you didn't see this" but kept in grunting and straining just the same, in no hurry at all. It happened several more times over the two weeks we were there, and the staff just shrugged when we reported it
Last time I ever stay at a hotel with a 24hr bar.

MuddhaOfSuburbia · 15/06/2015 17:30

sigh

if we had one of them nice swim up rooms we'd probably be sitting on the edge with our trousers rolled up dangling our veiny paperwhite feet in the water

twenty years ago however we might well have Forgotten Ourselves

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