To object to this holiday?

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Ex just informed me on collecting DD that he's booked a holiday next year in Sharm el Sheikh? No discussion, nothing & DD is all excited. I'm bloody furious. I've now been put in the position of saying no & of course DD will just see me being mean & spoiling their big adventure

I'd never go there, not in the current climate & I'm not happy to let DD go either. Googling for current information is not easing any concerns I have & I'm bloody furious at being put in this position.

So. AIBU to say no to this? He'd need my permission to take her so I can stop it if I choose.

No bloody way would I go there. ISIS have called for attacks in the area, there have been attacks before, others have been foiled, there seems to be a heightened risk of sexual violence towards female tourists as well. It's not just you, the number of other tourists there has plummeted apart from Russians. People are telling you just to go, but it's easy to tell someone else to take a risk.

I would also never spend my money in a country that has a terrible record for human rights and the treatment of gays, women and minorities.

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Ahemmmm what?