Ok I'll give some more detail on what I meant by Scottish values & attitudes.
For a start it's not about being better or superior- quite a few of these are negative!
-small c conservatism esp socially eg gay rights, abortion, 'knowing your place', more draconian & archaic justice system- eg Cadder, Carloway getting put on backburner, more prisoners, lower rape conviction rates etc.
-economically frugal (stingy scot cliche) but gives more to charity and has more of a sense of equity. We are more likely to live in flats with communal 'closes' so more of a shared good mindset. 'Englishman's home is his castle', Scots aren't as enthusiastic about home ownership. Historically Scotland was a land of towns, England a land of villages.
-I read kate Fox's watching the English. I recognised a lot of it but some is distinctly English. Class is more of an English obsession. They are more in favour of the monarchy.
-other books which discuss Scots identity are blossom by Lesley Riddoch and the tears that made the Clyde by carol Craig if anyone's interested.
-I find Scots can be more defeatist whereas the English can have a bit more get up & go but I'm not sure if this is just a recent thing linked to reindustrialisation as Scots were historically very entrepreneurial.
-Scots (well west coast) culture is more macho & violent. There is a self destructiveness I don't see in the English- more drinking, smoking, obesity etc.
-I do think the English stereotype of the stuff upper lip holds true- I find Scots are more expressive.
-then there's sectarianism which afaik doesn't exist down south.
So different, yes definitely. Better? That's a matter for debate.
Re: what I said about visiting a theme park in the south has to be taken in the context of the wealth of people going there vs the people living in deprived communities I see here.
-no red heads! (There were loads in my high school!)
-more people with the 'Kate Middleton look' eg olive skin that tans in the sun rather than just turns red, brown eyes, chestnut hair. There weren't as many people with the 'Celtic' look of pale/pink/freckly skin with blue eyes and dark hair.
-everyone was slimmer!
-poor Scots men are shorter
-I see a lot of visible ill health in Scotland eg obesity, people in 40/50s walking with sticks, 'flushed' alcoholic faces, many looking older than their years
-the kids had clearer skin and whiter teeth
A lot of this is probably more to do with the rich/poor divide but the rich/poor divide isn't equal north & south of the border so they can't really be seperated.
I don't think it's "sad" OP that I have developed more of a Scottish identity over the years, it's just a reflection on a changed society.