i've been coming back to this and how to put it.
the reality is, like it or not, that the 'normal' or the vast majority of people in every country all over the world are just like you and with the same concerns as you and the same level of bewilderment at the crazies of the world (be they the crazy minority power groups or the crazy minority extremist outsider groups) and the same wish to live in a sane stable world that allowed us to just fairly and safely go about the business of living, keeping rooves over our heads, having hope for our children's future, the future of our ecosystems etc. the average middle eastern person is as weirded out and as you are, the average chinese person, russian person, etc.
we're all shaking our heads and going wtf?!
talking about there or over there or this nation or that nation or this religion or that race is a nonsense really because the vast, vast, international, multi ethnic, multi religious, athesit, theist, black, white, male, female MASS of us are on the same page.
allowing ourselves to be manipulated and scaremongered into seeing each other as the enemy is cattle-minded for want of a better term. we're better and smarter than that surely? what did a mother in iraq who is sat at her kitchen table meal planning for the week and tutting at the state her son has made of his latest pair of school shoes and noting the extra stone sitting around her middle ever do to you? does she not have a zillion times MORE in common with you than political or financial or religious extremist in a pole position ever could?
take yourself syria and imagine hiding in a basement with your kids going wtf is going on and how the hell do we get through this? that's where your average mother will be right now - just like you'd be whilst mad men of various sides turn the streets to shit and western 'companies' and governments still profit from selling arms and weapons to the various groups involved.
much as we carry on trying to pay the bills, balance the budget, etc in the face of a recession in which energy companies and bankers etc still make billions in profit and ruling classes take the opportunity to seize more property, more land, more civil rights etc.
to me this isn't even about left or right or political parties or movements or whatever. this is about not being distracted and this is about humanity. who do you relate to? do you relate to another mother powerless to influence the political, economic, ideological forces of manipulation and machination around her but just trying to raise her children and get by or do you relate to the propaganda machine of the force on your home ground?
i would sincerely beg you, ESPECIALLY if you have never widely traveled, been to these countries, met these people, swam in these cultures etc to at least question the reliability of the impressions you have that have been fed to you rather than tasted first hand.
likewise if you haven't had cause to actually be in contact with british muslim communities, to go to mosques, to hang out in muslim family homes etc etc to at least be aware that your opinions are based on what? and what are the motivations and sources of the 'what' that you have absorbed your opinions from?
just please try and separate fears (and again pick them apart and ask who has vested interests in me being afraid, from where do i get my fear, what feeds my fear, what/who does my fear serve) from rational and experiential knowledge.
likewise the same manipulations and twistings are being used by muslim extremists to twist and disorient people. and one side feeds the other - the more you guys go, 'all these muslims are x y and z and we should do a b and c to curtail them' the more those manipulating young minds on the other end of the extremist pole can use that as evidence and fuel for their cause to say look? see? see the hate and threat and racism and what we must fight against if we are to survive?
it is a fire essentially that extremists on either end feed. the vast majority of us in the middle would rather starve it of fuel. not through being apathetic. grr way too long sorry.