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AIBU?

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To not want her in my house?

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DisappointedCake · 01/02/2015 18:25

The NotsoDP's ex wife is a nightmare. Nasty bullying manipulative behaviour displayed to us and their eldest child. An awful lot of negative behaviour over the last three years, abusive phone calls/emails, snide comments to family members, bullying the eldest child.

She's taken it upon herself to come in to my home and play with my daughter upon handover this morning. I am fuming!

I never enter her home or even attempt to. I sit in the car when collecting the SC or dropping them off. Never do I attept to get in her car nor do I attempt chatting to her asides from the polite 'hello' 'nice/horrible weather' 'anything to know about the kids?' Topics.

She had to walk through / open 3 doors to get in to my lounge so it wasn't a head round the door situation.

Up until the divorce was finalised a fortnight ago she would stay in her car on the road upon collection or pick up but now the divorce is through its as though she wants to be friendly?! Or am I getting the wrong end of the stick?

AIBU? (If so I blame it on the pregnancy hormones)

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DisappointedCake · 05/02/2015 12:14

Donkey I have sent her a long message explaining that I see her like a mother figure and that she is important to me and that I understand she shocked and hurting too.

Having spoken to my DM about the situation with MIL and EW she says I'm stupid because I didn't see it before! Ha it's only taken three years! Would have stopped all theses issues over that time but never mind.

P has turned up at a police station he is safe and well but no word as of yet.

Thank you for all your support.

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