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Ched Evans Should NOT be allowed to train at Sheffield United !! Wales next?

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DuelingFanjo · 11/11/2014 11:04

seriously?
I am absolutely appalled. I really really hope this doesn't mean he will ever play for Wales. I will definitely be taking part in some kind of protest if that happens.

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BinarySolo · 18/11/2014 16:23

I think the men that would argue it's different if it were them would probably argue that because they aren't gay they'd never have consented to anal sex and that it's more of a grey area for a straight woman with a man.

This of course is nonsense and you could counter argue that if you were that drunk maybe you did consent to bum sex.

That was a brilliant article. I'm so glad that gahooly's has been removed. It was a total embarrassment.

LurkingHusband · 18/11/2014 16:24

limitedperiodonly

What colour is the sky in the world of a majority women's website where people can use cunt as a form of abuse but can't say n* in context?

If you haven't, watch Episode 4 of Stewart Lees Comedy Vehicle (Context) Series 3, he rips apart the idea of context.

limitedperiodonly · 18/11/2014 16:25

think of the Lee Bowyer / Jonathan Woodgate case? That was a few years ago though

Again I take your point. I follow football only casually - England matches, high profile Premiership, a residual interest in the team supported by my dad.

I don't remember what's happened to them. In my memory, they did okay for a while because they were useful players. As I remember, Bowyer, who I think was also a Welsh international with feral teeth, continued to have disciplinary problems.

Who knows where they are now? Buy-to-let landlords, possibly. I remember the Liverpool chant of We All Live In A Robbie Fowler House.

I do remember that the one who came off worst in that case, that was blown apart by the blundering Sunday Mirror who were polishing their anti-racist credentials, was Michael Dubarry.

He didn't seem to have had much to do with the alleged assault other than being there. And was compelled to give prosecution evidence. And was slaughtered by fans for it. And was black.

sashh · 18/11/2014 16:35

Mezzalune

Actually you may have been raped, but putting that to one side.

Were you ever in a locked hotel room when a strange man came in and 'had a go'? Or did you actually have a drunken one night stand?

Have you been forced to leave home? Have you been bullied for 2.5 years because you got drunk? Have you had to change your name and go in to hiding?

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limitedperiodonly · 18/11/2014 16:36

How many of our employers would pay our legal fees if we were tried for (racially motivated) GBH with intent, I wonder?

They would if you made enough money for them.

MyEmpireOfDirt · 18/11/2014 16:38

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Canonsatdawn · 18/11/2014 18:29

That mike simmons 'blog' (it's the only entry on the page) is very depressing, what a despicable peice of writing, what a sad little man.

HenriettaTurkey · 20/11/2014 20:27

Breaking News:
Sheffield United retract Evans offer
Last updated 8 minutes ago

By Simon Stone

BBC Sport

Sheffield United have announced that they have retracted their offer to let convicted rapist Ched Evans to use their training facilities.

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Andrewofgg · 20/11/2014 20:38

Take a bow, MN. Take a bloody great bow!!

GetMe · 20/11/2014 21:34

Fecking brilliant news!

Jolleigh · 20/11/2014 21:42

Now, mumsnetters... You may have seen another thread on BBC's Nick Conrad's discussion about Evans in which he takes part in horrendous victim blaming and likens men to dogs, unable to control their urges.

My good friend HotCrossPun has created a petition for his dismissal from the BBC. Please be so kind as to copy and paste the link below into your browser (apologies, I'm on the app) and sign and share.

www.change.org/p/bbc-sack-nick-conrad

Neverbuyheliumbalonz · 20/11/2014 21:43

This is brilliant news and proof that people can make a difference. Well done everyone!

Reading the statement though it sort of reads like:
'We don't reeeeaaaaalllly believe that Ched Evans is even guilty, and we would have signed him but these fuckin women wouldn't stop nagging so what can ya do '

The irony of people saying he has been the victim of a witchunt.....

AgentZigzag · 20/11/2014 21:44

About fucking time, wankers.

I wonder how much of the decision to tell julien blanc to fuck the fuck off was influenced by the outrage caused by this convicted rapist.

Hopefully on a roll and it'll help give the children who have been victims of organised sexual predators in Rotherham/Elm Guest House/celebrities etc etc etc a slice of any justice going.

fourwoodenchairs · 20/11/2014 21:47

Agree with empire, however I'm glad it's been done at least.

Fucking wanker.

AgentZigzag · 20/11/2014 21:48

The petition link

Some of it says...

During a live discussion about Ched Evans and his possible return to football, Nick Conrad made the following comments;

''I think women need to be more aware of a man's sexual desire that when you're in that position that you are about to engage in sexual activity there's a huge amount of energy in the male body, there's a huge amount of will and intent and it's very difficult for many men to say no when they are whipped up into a bit of a storm.''

''And it's the old adage about if you yank a dog's tail don't be surprised when it bites you.''

''Or you can't keep snakes in the garden and think they'll only bite your neighbours.''

''But they then (feminists) in their fury against men and masculinity they actually forget to stop and say if you tease, if you jump into bed naked with a man if you give him all the signals and then he acts upon them then you are partially responsible and of course it is a grey area and there will be cases where you wanted to go certain distance and not go any further and the man is absolutely wrong but if you are... how do I say this...

''But what I'm trying to say is that women also have to understand that when a man's given certain signals he'll wish to act upon them and if you don't wish to give out the wrong signals it's best probably to keep your knickers on and not get into bed with him.''

Shock
Jolleigh · 20/11/2014 21:50

Ta Agent Smile.

fourwoodenchairs · 20/11/2014 21:55

Everytime I read what Nick has said it makes me want to cry. How could he not comprehend the pure stupidness of what he had said?

AgentZigzag · 20/11/2014 22:08

The petition doesn't automatically log you in to facebook like they normally do, or am I missing something?

Jolleigh · 20/11/2014 22:23

change.org doesn't have Facebook sign in I don't think...I may well be wrong thoughConfused

AgentZigzag · 20/11/2014 22:36

Hmmm, I'm not sure what happens with that then, sometimes when I'm either emailed a change.org petition or click a link to one on here it gives me the option to post it on my fb timeline and/or invite all my fb friends to sign it.

I'm sure it just comes up with my fb details automatically without having to sign in to anything.

It's definitely the way to get a petition snowballing though.

Jolleigh · 20/11/2014 22:49

Tech support on the way Agent Wink.

HotCrossPun · 20/11/2014 22:59

Ta Jolleigh! I'll have a wee look, Agent :)

Jolleigh · 20/11/2014 23:09

Quick chinwag later and just one question...

Is your browser logged into Facebook currently? I'm on the phone (I do all my best work here Wink) and if I open the petition through my link on Facebook, I do get the option to share in a new post. If I open it through the link below it doesn't...I never log in through the browser on my phone.

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