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To be a bit miffed that people coo over my Pug puppy more than they do my newborn DD

127 replies

Mrsdavidcaruso · 03/11/2014 20:35

Seriously I must have been stopped about 20 times today with people wanting to touch and cuddle Daisy Mae my puppy, I don't mind as I am socialising her , but my beautiful new born gets either totally ignored or people give a quick glance into the pram look at me as if to say oh is a baby then give puppy their full attention.

Oh well at least no-one has said Daisy Mae has my eyes or nose

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OttiliaVonBCup · 03/11/2014 21:13

I always coo over puppies.
Babies - not so much.

BlinkAndMiss · 03/11/2014 21:17

LaurieFairyCake Grin

Minerves · 03/11/2014 21:19

i'm always a play with the pet woman, not a hold the baby woman. i don't find babies particularly cute or interesting. i avoid holding babies as much as possible.

(yes, I know, this is a baby orientated forum... please don't hate me!!)

Jynxed · 03/11/2014 21:20

I'll coo over your baby! Please post a photo. Congratulations!

OttiliaVonBCup · 03/11/2014 21:24

Jynxed we were doing so well until you came on the thread.
There's always one...

Grin
MothershipG · 03/11/2014 21:27

You need to post a pic of them both so we can properly asses which is cutest, although I'm sure it's your puppy baby. Wink Grin

zeezeek · 03/11/2014 21:29

Ooooh pug puppies are so cute :-).

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 03/11/2014 21:29

Sorry while babies are gorgeous. I'm trying for one myself! but I'm afraid cuteness wise a puppy well any baby animal every time in my book.
I bet your d.d is gorgeous though.
I think also trying to to get to serious here but to some people women can get jealous when they see a new born baby so people can be hostile where as you're hardly going to get jealous of a dog with puppies.
I wonder if it works like with dogs. Do they get jealous of other dogs having pups but find human babies irresistably cute.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 03/11/2014 21:31

amendment... While babies are gorgeous. Cuteness a puppy or any baby animal will trumps a human baby anytime

Madeyemoodysmum · 03/11/2014 21:33

I'd rush at speed to cuddle a baby kitten! A baby human. Can take them or leave them. Love my own but others are a polite oh she\he are gorgeous for mums sake.
I prefer older kids that can talk and interact.

I'm sure your dd is lovely but others may not be bothered.

ExitPursuedByABear · 03/11/2014 21:33

Did you ask for advice on the name on here?

WowserBooooooooooooser · 03/11/2014 21:35

Mae would never have got passed

TheBatteriesHaveRunOut · 03/11/2014 21:35

I'm jealous of dog owners because I can't have one.

You can keep your babies though. Frankly, I'm sick of them.

FreudiansSlipper · 03/11/2014 21:35

i think it is out of sympathy

pugs are so so ugly you can not help but want to make them feel better about themselves

zeezeek · 03/11/2014 22:08

YADBVVVVU not to post a pic of your pug Grin

PhaedraIsMyName · 03/11/2014 22:13

Unless you are related to the baby all kittens and puppies are cuter than babies.

Babies look much of a muchness.
I've never seen an ugly puppy or kitten but I've definitely experienced the Seinfeld episode of struggling to find something nice to say (he's got a lovely smile?) about a baby.

I'm sure yours is lovely but I'm afraid the reality unless one has a personal investment in a baby they're not that interesting.

gamerchick · 03/11/2014 22:14

Pugs are pure cruelty aren't they? I always feel pity for them when I see them poor little buggers.

Anyway I prefer babies to dogs anyroad.

So I would be all smiley at your baby than your dog OP , probably not what you wanted from this thread though Wink

OscarWinningActress · 03/11/2014 22:21

It's because puppies are WAY cuter and more animated than tiny babies and far more rewarding. Plus, it's socially acceptable to lavish attention on a puppy but not so a tiny baby...people might think you're a loony kidnapper if you try to cuddle a stranger's newborn Grin.

Mrsjayy · 03/11/2014 22:44

But a puppy sniffs and wags its tail and wants to talk to people babies just sleep and dont wag their tails

TheWitTank · 03/11/2014 22:50

Would be one of the baby ignorers/puppy love lavishers OP, sorry Blush. Newborns are cute only to their parents- I can admit to adoring my own two but realising they were rashy, red, milk spotted little old men look a likes. Beautiful to me and my DH of course. Puppies are cute, cuddly, fluffy and adorable.

Morloth · 03/11/2014 22:54

Puppies are way cuter than babies, they have soft snuggly fur and cutesy wutesy paws.

Morloth · 03/11/2014 22:55

Also babies are people, it is a bit weird for strangers to cuddle random people. But puppies are fine.

IrenetheQuaint · 03/11/2014 22:57

I don't even like dogs as a rule, but can't help going a bit funny over puppy ears.

Babies... Well, I have to like the parents to be interested. Random babies are just a bit odd-looking.

SistersOfPercy · 03/11/2014 23:00

I'm in the puppies camp, sorry. Not a maternal bone in my body, something which amuses my two adult kids massively. It's like someone turned off the 'i like children'switch when they grew up.

Put the pug in the pram in a bonnet, that would be so much cute. Grin

tabulahrasa · 03/11/2014 23:08

Babies don't do anything, puppies are all excited to see you and interactive.

I mean you might have the most beautiful newborn ever (and I'm sure you do) but they're not going to play with me when I say hello.

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