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To be very miffed at this? (Friend related)

83 replies

Lollycats · 02/10/2014 13:09

My friend phoned me yesterday and asked if I wanted to meet today in town for lunch. I said yes, and we arranged a time and place to meet.

Woke up this morning and she had sent me a text message saying that she can't make it now as her children are ill. She is quite flakey at times anyway, so these things often happen with her.

I have just seen that she has been tagged on facebook by another friend of hers, having lunch at the very place she was going to go to with me!!

AIBU to be highly pissed off and not meet up with her again?

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CaptainAnkles · 02/10/2014 14:37

Well done OP. Stick to your guns. (If it wasn't childish and mean, I'd suggest making plans with her and then texting to say you'd had a better offer).

trixymalixy · 02/10/2014 14:40

How horrible. Ver dignified reply from you.

InMySpareTime · 02/10/2014 14:44

Comment "you told me the kids were sick, I hope they're not home alone!"

MintyChops · 02/10/2014 15:01

What a bitch and so stupid as well..... Please do tell us if she gets back to you - what could she possibly say?!!?

Lollycats · 02/10/2014 15:44

Still no reply from her....

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KoalaDownUnder · 02/10/2014 16:30

Yeah, I've got some flaky friends, and that's not flaky. It's mean and atrociously rude.

Aeroflotgirl · 02/10/2014 17:37

She is nasty and spiteful, rubbing your face in like that. She did not need to out it on FB and you would be none the wiser. Good thing she exposed who she really is

LumpenproletariatAndProud · 02/10/2014 17:45

What's worse is that she 'liked' the status, so not only was she fully aware her friend did it, she was putting it out there a little more.

She won't reply. She won't reply because she is a twat and she is in the wrong.

amyhamster · 02/10/2014 17:49
Shock what a bitch !
PinkSnowAndStars · 02/10/2014 18:16

Just delete her! You are better than that.. And I'm sure you've got better friends that won't mess you about!

BingoBonkers · 02/10/2014 18:29

You'll probably find the status and her tag go POOF!

Hate people like that. It's sheer rudeness. Unfortunately for them FB means nothing is secret any more.

Good on you for commenting.

BingoBonkers · 02/10/2014 18:30

Just read that she "liked" the post. In that case I'd dump and delete. Who needs friends like that?

LEMmingaround · 02/10/2014 18:35

She is s prime example of a cunt

onedev · 02/10/2014 18:39

She really is a bitch Shock

Pobblewhohasnotoes · 02/10/2014 18:41

What a cow.

ScrambledeggLDCcakeBOAK · 02/10/2014 18:42

lem Grin

LeftRightCentre · 02/10/2014 18:44

Block her and ignore from now on. She texts, just answer once, 'I chose not to associate with liars. Please refrain from contacting me further.'

MarieSarah · 02/10/2014 21:12

What a beeeeee-aaaaatch... Seriously??? She has no brain shame

Lollycats · 03/10/2014 14:41

I still haven't heard anything from her. I doubt I will, she and her friend are probably cackling away about it all

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Asteria · 03/10/2014 15:24

I would just delete her from your life. She isn't worth the oxygen!

freshlysharpenedpencils · 03/10/2014 15:29

really awful!! sounds a lot like my ex best friend

Hissy · 03/10/2014 15:33

Yeah but you have an entire MN thread calling her a total bitch.

i say that is the best 'last laugh' ever!

Castlemilk · 03/10/2014 16:29

Oh I don't know. Hard to genuinely cackle when you KNOW deep down that you're a Grade-A stinker.

She may even have read this thread...

phantomnamechanger · 03/10/2014 16:37

what a cow!

MyGastIsFlabbered · 03/10/2014 16:42

Shamelessly marking place to see if ex-friend replies.

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