Secret It's day 1. Did you listed to what DC asked WH to do? Did you read about what EM said he didn't agree with? OR are you just kicking the cat? now seem to be & are actually are not the same thing!
Now, I'm no fan of either of them, but bloody hell, let's call them on things when they have fucked up, not when they might maybe fuck up! (we'd get nothing done if we did that!).
Is it bothering you that they are saying 'OK, well we've promised Scotland xyz - so how are we going to make that work in England, Wales and NI as well'? Because if it is, that's not really fair is it? Do we deserve any less? England gets the sticky end of the stick as it is because we are 'here' - a bit like you are more polite to visitors than your DH.
People see the money in London. But it's a small small small part of the rest of the UK, Scotland isn't any worse off than any other bit of the UK. People also don't see the incredible poverty there is in London.
It's not just Scotland, it's not just the UK - it's not just Westminsters fault. The world has been in a fuck off sized recession and Westminster didn't create it. Yes it make some huge mistakes - but it's not the only govt to have done so. None of what has happened has only affected Scotland and actually, compared to most other countries we are climbing out of it 'ok'.
I get that you are upset & disappointed, I really, really do. I don't think being upset or disappointed is hysterical or over emotional, not at all. My heart felt very heavy watching some of the 'yes' voters being interviewed, I was quite tearful.
I don't know why you have wanted this since you were 8, I don't really understand that (maybe you can tell me sometime when you are ready) because to me we are all better off together. Like family we fight, but we are a family and why someone would want out of that baffles me?!
It's hard to watch people lose their dream, even when you don't think their dream was a wise one 
But irrespective of all of that - there is nothing to feel humiliated about.
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