I think the thing is pretty is that I have a yes voting friend that I can discuss the referendum (or not) with without worry, we actually have very similar political views but disagree on whether independence is the best way to achieve them. We can have fab discussions about it.
But I do find yes supporters (and the huge signs they put up) that I don't know intimidating. Because I don't know which of them are the fab ones that I'd have tons in common with outside of the referendum debate and get on well with. And which are the ones who will shout down people with opposing views, tell my (English) husband to f* off back home, otherwise verbally abuse people in public and whether or not they are the ones who have been vandalising No signs and graffiting Yes or Yes stickers everywhere. I don't know, it just feels very unfriendly.