flippinada, that isn't the case for me. I respect the political opinion of others, if a person told me they were a No voter, I might ask why to understand more about it, because it's a viewpoint I don't understand, but I wouldn't belittle their opinion. For a start, as you've just illustrated, it isn't likely to change anyone's mind if you hector them.
In response to your point about saying you are Yes when you are voting No, you can usually tell if someone isn't really voting Yes, as genuine supporters are eager to discuss what iScotland will be like, and what they would like to see. Anyone who isn't genuine obviously wouldn't start a conversation about how great it is!
I know it is hard to understand when you seem to have 'pockets' of one opinion. I struggle to comprehend how the vote can be so close when I don't know a single No voter, but they are obviously out there, just not where I live.
I also don't understand your point about childcare- provision has already been increased as my ds2 gets more hours than my elder children did, and it has been increased this year. They have had to recruit over 50 childcare providers in my local area and have struggled to find enough quality candidates, so it is possible the phased introduction of 30 hours might reflect the fact that it complex to provide quality care and education, not that this is being used as a bargaining tool.