OP, I've been thinking about your posts overnight, particularly about what you said about bedroom tax and property ownership. I totally understand where you are coming from, when you buy a house then you can buy one with spare bedrooms and it is nobody, else's business, obviously. I think that one of the principles of the Conservative party and many of their voters is 'equality of opportunity' which assumes a level playing field and an attitude of 'I worked hard and bought my own house, so why not you?'
The thing is, it's not a level playing field. People don't start from the same place or have the same resources, contacts and opportunities.
The problem that a lot of people have with the Conservative party comes down to the attitude mentioned upthread by BasketzatDawn
DC, GO, and other are rude and arrogant in public and on camera and it's because they have a sense of superiority. They think that because they have landed on the top of the heap then they are innately 'better' than those they govern. They look at the poor, the sick, the disabled, the 'little people', the 'hard-working families' and sneer at them, make things harder for them and introduce punitive policies whist simultaneously skimming off the cream (expenses/Royal Mail/NHS contracts/shambolic child abuse investigations) for other people 'like them' who have won in the game of life, and they think it's fair and right and just because of the 'equality of opportunity' myth.
When you are in government, you have to run the country, for everyone, not just for your own friends and your party donors. You don't get to let your friends, or people you'd like to be your friends Gary Barlow get away with tax evasion and paedophilia while screwing the chavs and the vulgar middle classes. You have to govern for people you don't even like, people who scratch their balls through cheap tracksuit bottoms, people who commit crimes, people who are thick as mince, people who watch Jeremy Kyle.
It's really good. It's American, and about the polar ends of Park Lane but it is relevant to Britain too. Our inequality is based on the same principles as theirs. We also have 'The 1% of the 1%' at the top and stagnation at the bottom. I really urge you to watch it.
If you cba to watch the whole thing then there is an interesting rich/poor monopoly experiment at 3.30 which will only take a couple of minutes to watch.