It's alright, I've been told I'm greedy, selfish, don't understand the real world...maybe I can join you in cloud cuckoo land?
It sounds like it would be a lot more peaceful. 
deeedeee No-one should ignore/belittle you for what you said in thread one, I think we've all said things out of context and apologised for it, human nature and heated debates and all...
I can't speak for lurkers, and I've only been on MN since June myself, but of the No voters who I've seen post regularly on this thread, Statistically", OOAMOL (Sorry if I got that wrong, but you'll know who I mean!) and SantanaLopez* at least all seem genuine to me. Not saying the rest aren't (I don't remember everyone's names) but just as they contribute a lot, and I've seen them around MN as well as these threads, and their posts are interesting, even if I don't necessarily agree.