Yes everyone, I know, and I really don't want to sound miserable, but what seriously worries me is that this is what is happening to the debate in general terms. Big issue fatigue becomes cheerful gossip.
My position is that for personal historic reasons independence is emotionally compelling. But when I look at what nationalism has done to places like Kosovo and is doing in Iraq right now, I have worries.
And when I look at what the Scottish Government has achieved in rural areas, as in the place where I live, I'm HONESTLY not impressed. Believe me, I have tried to make allowances. It's a genuine disppaointment to me.
I only say all this because, when talking to people who live near me, I know I am not the only person to hold these views.
Politics is horribly difficult; I don't want to rain on your cheerful parade, but the issue I have raised really are important.