My Partner is not happy that I still see my step children

[Zante111]

My partner has a problem even if I mention the name of my step children from a previous relationship let alone meet them.
I think its the link to my previous partner that is at the root of the problem.
I have no feelings for my previous partner whatsoever.
And I do not need to see my previous partner.
Its difficult to cut people out of your life and I would like to know
Does anyone else have similar issues?

You could tell your "partner" to like it or lump it

Does he expect you to cut off these children that I presume you grew to love and be a big part of their life ?

You can see whoever you like, step children or not.

I'd keep the step children and get rid of the partner.

Easier to cut a relatively new partner out I would think...

Yup

Does he realise how shit like this makes him look ? Like a Fucking tool, that's how.

What a horrible thing for your partner to comment on. Is this typical behaviour for him?

TBH I am not sure.
I just know he has a problem dealing with it.
We had a rocky start to our relationship and maybe there are trust issues.
That said I have never been unfaithful to him.
I don't expect him to meet my ex just the step daughter and her child would be nice.

how old are they do they need there dad to see you or old enough to see you independently?

Jeez, a grown up step daughter, she must be a real threat
He sounds like a knob.

Define "rocky start"

He's jealous that a child is getting more attention than him? What a baby.

Partner must be very insecure to object to step children.

Insecure is never a good personality trait.

Is there anyone else would rather you have no contact with?

I wondered about the rocky start too, has he been unfaithful?

He sounds vile

See your step children and get rid of him

This doesn't bode well, how is he when you see other friends?

Run for the hills. He's trying to isolate you and that's how it starts.

Do you want a sulky controlling man child or a man?

Dump him rather than the step children.

Define Rocky Start..Ok
At the beginning a 3 months into the relationship
I had a function where my ex was attending.
I asked my new partner but they declined probably due to the reason my ex would be there.
This issue has never left his mind that I went without him and never gave him my time at xmas.
Its always being brought up and he can not let it.
In answer to your question stepdaughter is 30.

See I would get very bored with someone like that very quickly, never letting something go.

Tell him to pack it the fuck up or move on.

This is a very nasty character trait. Jealous, possessive, selfish. I would be assessing his role in my life rather than the step children's.

Zante, it's not going to go well if he's having these issues already. You have done nothing wrong.

He's a total dick. Why are you putting up with him?

So he's jealous, petty, won't let things go, is demanding of your time, and expects you to give up friends (dsd and dgc)?

Well for a start the only reason that's a rocky start is because he's an arse. Most people would hardly bat an eyelid. When you said rocky start I thought you'd been having it away with the ex not just happening to be in the same place at the same time - sheesh!

Your partner is trying to control you and quite frankly sounds about 12.

Run. Run far away.....!

Yes but I'm not squeeky clean in this relationship.
I have told a couple of lies early on that I have come clean about now..
Personal things..
But like I said before I have never been unfaithful.
I love him but his constant regurgitation on this subject is annoying to say the least.

Zante, it's lovely that you still see your step daughter and her child. I would have thought a new partner would like that you are like that.

It sounds like hard work being in a partnership with this person. Are they worth it?