I have a chance to meet someone on my laminate list....

[Cookingmonster]

What do I do? Really? I have a real chance, one on one with someone on my laminate list. Do I seek an intimate moment with him, or more probably, try and look cool and aloof? DH says, "Go for it!"

Is this someone you know?

I'm struggling to understand tbh.

If you're me, you just get star struck and tongue tied and make an utter cock of yourself. Good luck though!

Do you really have a chance with them or just the chance to meet them? Also would laminate rules be upheld or rejected as hypothetical if actually invoked?

I'd go for it.

If that person was worth it upon actually meeting them.

Who is it??

I need to know who it is to make a decision

Have you actually printed and laminated the list? Because as long as it is only theoretical, I think you are on dubious contractual grounds...

I think we at least need a gentle hint at who it is before advice can be given

Interesting. It's not actually laminated but I know who is on his list and he knows who's on mine. It's a verbal contract. Interestingly, he has just noted that all of his are Americans and 4 of mine are British, so my chances are higher. Very real chance of not only meeting him but one on one time with him as well.

Not knowing what a laminate list is.id say dont get intimate it'll make yiu look desperate

You will be a plonker or he will be a twunt. Tis the way of these things.

Who is it?

We need to know who it is!

You need to give us some hints.

YY more info.

Who is it and what is the context of the meeting?

Dammit! What's the point of having a laminate list then?!

We can't possibly give you advice until you tell us who it is & how come you're going to have this chance

Someone on my list follows me on twitter. We DM each other. It's usually boring stuff about our kids rather than 'I must have you now', but still...

I am involved in events. He is going to be involved in one of my events. He is married. I do not wish to divulge further...

Does the person on the list get a say in this btw?

None of the above EatShit, although I will say that most on MN love him. I think the person in question does get a say in it this Lonny. I will not tie him down without his permission.

Drat! I've just realised that I don't know what the etiquette is if your laminate listees are married. If it makes them out of bounds then my list has shrunk to one.