Peeing with the door open

[grumpasaur]

My husband thinks it is weird. I don't see a problem with it- especially considering I wee about 800 times a day, and the cat meows every time the bathroom door is closed! Who is being unreasonable??

Ha, I do it all the time. It drives DW mad (so I do it more)!

The boys are mobile now though, so I have started closing it more.

Depends on loads of things but generally yeah I pee with the door open. Always close for a poo. Well most of the time. Walk around naked too most of the time...bit of an exhibitionist.

grump DH. just overwhelmed me with making me feel I was person he wanted most in the world. He was so turned on and wanted me so much I just felt really 'powerful' if that is the right word.

He tells me every day how beautiful I am and about 5x a day that he loves me. I just trusted him in a way I have never trusted anyone. And it is such a laugh as well. Sex is so funny at times with him- all the bits that can go wrong or be undignifying just became part of the fun and the intimacy of it.
And he is not skinny himself- I prefer tall well- built men who are not skinny- so that helped. We both put weight on, take it off (we are not very overweight just not what you would call 'slender')and it makes no difference to how we feel about each other.
One night when we had just started sleeping together and I got into bed in what I thought was a sexy but 'accessible' and hides-the-fat bits kind of slip nightie thing, he just held me and said very gently 'It's lovely Lu but just take it off. I want to feel your skin against mine, all night. I want to sleep cuddled up to you and feel you against me, not a nightie.' I believed him. I took it off- quite a big thing for me- and we just cuddled up.

The covering up hid nothing anyway.He sleeps like a rucksack and his hands get everywhere so a satiny slip nightie was hardly creating an impression of a supermodel body.He knew exactly what my body was like and he loves it. It was my mind I was really pandering to.

Don't know that any of this is the tips you asked about but it sort of explains how he made me feel good about myself.

I think what the cat wants is most important.

Ours has everyone in the house trained toleave all doors slightly ajar, especially the shower doors so she can drink the shower water at any time.