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Was DH unreasonable to ask the neighbour's kids

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differenttoyou · 06/07/2014 23:22

to go inside at 9.40 this morning. There were 3 of them and they'd been outside on their trampoline (which buts right up to the fence) since 8.00 am singing at the top of their voices. Eventually we couldn't take it any longer as they started to sing a song from Frozen and they ramped up the volume until they were virtually screaming. DH called over the fence and asked them to go and sing inside.

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MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 13:41

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Bowlersarm · 08/07/2014 13:47

Carry on rambling Mayhem why don't you.

Oh you are. There's a surprise.

MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 13:48

I'm young, plenty of time to ramble Smile

Bowlersarm · 08/07/2014 13:49

Immature, is the word which springs to mind.

MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 13:50

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Bowlersarm · 08/07/2014 13:51

Now what are you on about?

MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 13:52

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RiverTam · 08/07/2014 13:56

there's no bullying, Mayhem, you are simply getting the responses you deserve based on your posts, which right from the off (I believe you're first said something along the lines of 'well, it's war now') have been incredibly aggressive and vindictive.

You seem to be suggesting that no-one ever talk to your DC directly, that everything should come through you - is that accurate? That no adult can talk to your DC? Even (as is the case with the OP and her NDN) someone who you and your DC have known for a while, you share a culture with, and who your DC have known too, and with whom you have an amicable relationship? You still say you wouldn't want them to talk to your DC and it would now be war?

And you think you can criticise others' parenting or handling of this kind of situation? Really? You must be incredibly un-self aware if that's the case.

Bowlersarm · 08/07/2014 13:56

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Vintagejazz · 08/07/2014 13:57

I'd rather have an older mum than a young immature rude and offensive one.

Drgonzosattorney · 08/07/2014 13:57

Stop it Mayhem, you're making a fool out of yourself.

IamRechargingthankYou · 08/07/2014 14:07

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MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 14:16
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Vintagejazz · 08/07/2014 14:18

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MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 14:19

Oh sorry, it was fine to find fault with my age?

It was fine to criticise my kids and my dh?

They don't like it back at em Pike

MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 14:20

Vintage you think teachers lie. I've stopped listening to you.

Vintagejazz · 08/07/2014 14:22

I don't think you ever started listening to anyone on this thread, Mayhem.

MayhemMostDays · 08/07/2014 14:23

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IamRechargingthankYou · 08/07/2014 14:26

Grin = Mayhem obviously needs some Mental Help - there must be a MN Board where she can find some help.

Vintagejazz · 08/07/2014 14:28

Seriously Mayhem you should look at anger management classes. Your posts are becoming very odd.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 08/07/2014 14:32

IMO, Mayhem, your behaviour on this thread has been unacceptable, and your 14:23:56 comment to recharging is utterly vile.

IamRechargingthankYou · 08/07/2014 14:38

For the last time Mayhem shut up - I have never looked at any history of any poster. So what if I have tried to find other families with dc that have ASD to holiday with - we holiday plenty on our own and have a great time. Or other LPs - often having a child with ASD=LP in the end. So I like to share around the possibilities that it is possible to do. We're off to Albania at the end of July if anyone wants to come!

Mintyy · 08/07/2014 14:42

Mayhem is being a goady person, which is a deletable offence if anyone can be bothered to report to hq.

Vintagejazz · 08/07/2014 14:44

Iam you don't need to explain anything to Mayhem. Her comment was beyond pathetic. I don't think she's even worth reporting to MNHQ as I really don't think anyone is taking her seriously.