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To think whoever organised this should be prosecuted?

444 replies

curiousgeorgie · 04/07/2014 12:12

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2679321/Mayor-demands-police-investigation-British-girl-filmed-performing-sex-act-24-men-two-minutes-win-3euro-bottle-Cava-Magaluf-bar.html

Apologies for the daily mail link and apologies if its already been done, I did have a quick look and couldn't see anything.

An old work friend posted the video of this on Facebook last night and it is horrendous... (And this absolutely doesn't excuse it) but she thought she was doing it for a holiday, but it turned out to be for a drink.

I feel so sorry for her parents (and for her actually)..

I think the rep who organised this 'game' should face prosecution...

OP posts:
Mybigfatredwedding · 06/07/2014 22:09

Gosh there is a lot of shit being spouted from all sides all over this thread!

Nicknacky · 06/07/2014 22:15

So what's your input then if everyone is talking shite?

DumDumDeeDay · 06/07/2014 22:20

What an absolute lack of respect to actual rape victim's to even insinuate she is a victim.

I have watched the video she was clearly seen unzipping mens trousers and pulling their willies out.

her action's are hers and hers alone, no one forced her to preform sex acts on 24 stranger's

I have no sympathy at all for her. I am also totally disgusted at all those on this thread looking to blame everyone else than admit that a girl would willingly do such a thing to win a "holiday"

Pixel · 06/07/2014 22:35

Loads of people saying she must have low self-esteem. Since we don't know her at all we can't possibly say if she has or hasn't. She could just as easily have very high self-esteem, believe herself to be God's gift to men and love being the centre of attention.

MostWicked · 06/07/2014 22:52

And it was designed to humiliate her...purely because whether it is right or wrong - in this society 'suck my dick' is still an insult.
So is 'fuck you' but when is suck my DH or we have sex, there is no insult or humiliation involved.

The risk of transmission of disease is huge - both for her and the blokes
Huge? No, not really.

Nicknacky · 06/07/2014 22:58

I still interested to know what Fellretuneth thinks my husband will be going when he goes to Magaluf. She seemed to have a strong opinion on it, but has never returned to discuss it further. Hmmmm.........

unlucky83 · 06/07/2014 23:24

revealal - wee is actually pretty clean - vomit I'd be a bit more worried about - but at least (hopefully) that would only be one person's germs
(I'm scarred by seeing someone drink a pint of flem - glass passed around a pub with people hacking up into it - but then we all thought it was absolutely gross (sadly the guy who drank it v. likely had MH problems/addiction problems) and we hardly aspired to be like him...

most if you can't see that is completely different to what this was .... Confused -
there was really nothing about empowering women in this game - an attempt to degrading definitely (read comments made by 'carnage' employees - the guy who organised this said it something like his job was 'making blokes feel like studs'...)
And I'm sure you are getting some pleasure out of what you do with your DH - can't see any sexual pleasure happening in this - a flaccid penis in someone's mouth for 5s ...

And transmission of diseases...I'll admit huge was an exaggeration but still would you recommend this to a teenager as a safe and sensible approach to sex? 24 random blokes who were only there to shag as many women as possible?
Would you recommend someone in that environment had sex with even one person without a condom? (even on the pill)

revealall · 07/07/2014 07:14

Unlucky - but these are holiday resorts purely based on activities like these. It neither empowers or disempowers any gender sexually because they make the choice to go on holiday there.

I would totally agree with the disgusted comments if this was my local pub. But I've seen lots worse in clubs in London.

MostWicked · 07/07/2014 10:38

can't see any sexual pleasure happening in this
It wasn't about sexual pleasure, it was about fun and taking risks and being outrageous.

would you recommend this to a teenager as a safe and sensible approach to sex?
No, I wouldn't recommend it, but the risks were actually pretty low. STIs are transmitted through exchange of bodily fluids. Saliva is not a risk unless she had a cut in her mouth or a coldsore. The risk of ingesting semen from 24 flaccid penises for a few seconds each, is also low.
It's not risk free, so couldn't be described as safe and sensible, but we don't live our entire lives based around what is safe and sensible do we.

AgaPanthers · 07/07/2014 11:31

I'm not sure ALL of the penises were flaccid.

glasgowstevenagain · 07/07/2014 12:03

Nickynacky

Why am I letting him?? Because he is a grown adult and can go where he wants!! And what, possibly could his "modus operandi" be?

You are a very cool right on partner... not sure why he wants to go to Shagaluf in the height of summer at all...... unless he is about 19 and this was booked before you both got together.

glasgowstevenagain · 07/07/2014 12:05

I am glad this thread has moved on since friday when there was a cohort of posters who (I assume without seeing the video) claim she was raped 24 times -

unlucky83 · 07/07/2014 12:13

most I think you need to read up about how STDs are transmitted - eg things like herpes can be skin to skin contact - no need for ejaculation....

There have been documented cases of HIV being transmitted by oral-penile contact - even in cases when the insertive partner didn't ejaculate.

And finally - she had no idea when they were last washed and where those penises had been minutes before - in someone's fanny/up someone's arse or even in a condom full of his semen...

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 12:16

Nothing to do with being cool and he has been away every year for the last ten years. We have been together 15 years.

"Shagalizard"? Maybe it is nicknamed that but I think it's a bit of a leap to assume that every person who goes there is going for sex!!

What resorts are acceptable then? Or do you stop going away once you have a partner?

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 12:16

Shagalizard?? Where the heck did that come from! I meant Shagaluf!

glasgowstevenagain · 07/07/2014 12:19

I have been there.

It is not somewhere I can imagine a man in his 30s ++ wanting to go to.

Do you stop going away once you have a partner....

You mustbe lucky that money and time mean that I can only afford one holiday a year and I would rather do that with my life partner than my mates.

It is not even as if he can use golf or fishing as an excuse.

Maga has always had the rep of sex and drink...more so now...

But each to their own...

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 12:31

He is 40+, there is 9 of them going.

He doesn't need an excuse to go anywhere and it's insulting to men every where that the inference is that they are going for sex. Maybe that's what you went for? I don't know, but I wouldn't assume you did as that would be unfair.

Money's not an issue, we have had a 2 week all inclusive holiday in Rhodes that we came back from last week, also had 3 days at Alton Towers and a weekend to a hotel resort. I'm not losing out as a family.

Life partner? Doesn't mean he stops being with his friends and has to spend every day off work with me.

Mintyy · 07/07/2014 13:51

"I would totally agree with the disgusted comments if this was my local pub. But I've seen lots worse in clubs in London."

Have you really revealall? Would those be one of them there specialist clubs, or just a normal run of the mill one?

I'd be livid if I were inadvertently exposed to gross behaviour like that on a night out and would report the perps for breaking the law.

MostWicked · 07/07/2014 14:27

unlucky83 I said it wasn't risk free, but the risks in terms of STIs, are low. Out of all of the sexual activities a person can do, 2 seconds of oral contact with a flaccid penis is one of the lowest risks, even when there are 24 of them.
Herpes would be the highest risk, the risk of HIV is tiny.

Nicknacky, what is he going to Magaluf for? I understand he wants to go away with his friends and I understand that you would not want to stop that because you trust him. I just didn't think there was anything else to Magaluf, other than the 18-30 scene. (no I've never been so I have no idea)

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 14:31

It's a short cheap flight from the airport close to us and he is going for four days with his friends to listen to dance music and drink!

I have no issue with that, it's what I would do if I was away with friends.

MostWicked · 07/07/2014 14:40

Ok, he's obviously a younger 40something than I am!
Just thinking about it gives me a headache (feeling old)

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 14:43

He is a young 46 year old and a company director to boot lol! All the men that are going are all professional good guys that have been friends for years and I think most have partners. They just like a boys break.

I just get annoyed that everyone gets tarred with the same brush. Men are capable of restraining themselves!

IamSlave · 07/07/2014 14:48

Its utterly disgusting and yes the organisers should be prosecuted

glasgowstevenagain · 07/07/2014 14:50

Listening to dance music with other young enough to be their children......

Bit weird and creepy!

A group of old men -

dirty old men is the expression I believe..

Men who want to drink and see friends fine...but such a young resort - known for being sleazy......

And I have been - I am a reformed sleazy man!

Nicknacky · 07/07/2014 14:54

So a stranger on the Internet has decided, based on my husbands choice of destination that he is a dirty old man.

You are an idiot. 46 is not old and so what if he is in the same building as 20 year olds?!

How offensive to insult another posters partner based on stereotype and their own previous bad behaviour.

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