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To think whoever organised this should be prosecuted?

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curiousgeorgie · 04/07/2014 12:12

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2679321/Mayor-demands-police-investigation-British-girl-filmed-performing-sex-act-24-men-two-minutes-win-3euro-bottle-Cava-Magaluf-bar.html

Apologies for the daily mail link and apologies if its already been done, I did have a quick look and couldn't see anything.

An old work friend posted the video of this on Facebook last night and it is horrendous... (And this absolutely doesn't excuse it) but she thought she was doing it for a holiday, but it turned out to be for a drink.

I feel so sorry for her parents (and for her actually)..

I think the rep who organised this 'game' should face prosecution...

OP posts:
waterducksback · 05/07/2014 17:50

BJing 24 men is now seen as a fun adventure'and a bit of a laugh
and anybody who disagrees is not liberated.

Says it all.

AgaPanthers · 05/07/2014 18:27

Just watched the video, she is very enthusiastic, whereas the men don't seem to be particularly keen, at one point another man appears to pull one of the participant's trousers down in order to force his participation.

oohdaddypig · 05/07/2014 18:46

solid the fact that people like you think it's ok, nay liberated, for an 18 year old girl to commit a sexual act in public upon 24 men says it all. If mature adults in Britain think this, then their teenage offspring stand no chance.

I wonder whether any parents on a forum in France or Spain would take this view? Probably explains why their teenagers aren't giving each other blow jobs on their local high streets on a Saturday night.

PPaka · 05/07/2014 19:00

guardian article on the subject

JohnFarleysRuskin · 05/07/2014 19:07

Good article- can't bare the comments tho...

Bambambini · 05/07/2014 19:09

I just wonder if the journalists who write up these sort of stories every stop and give a shit about the outcome and effect it will have for people. It's not even news.

oohdaddypig · 05/07/2014 19:18

I am a a guardian reader and thought the article completely missed the point.

Any prosecution will almost certainly be against the owner of the nightclub and not the individuals. This isn't about policing an individual's sexuality, it's about people in Magaluf saying "enough".

NeoFaust · 05/07/2014 19:27

Such a pity there's still so much shot shaming in the world. While it's quite legitimate to be concerned over the circumstances under which this occurred (inaccurately reported prize, etc) no one should judge her actions.

Prudery is so disappointing in the modern age.

waterducksback · 05/07/2014 19:31

Well, if being a 'prude' is not being willing to give 24 men a BJ, one after the other, then please, please, please - Let my children grow up to be prudes.

TheFairyCaravan · 05/07/2014 19:41

I'm glad I've bred 2 prudes then, who actually have some self respect!

Bambambini · 05/07/2014 19:41

Won't watch the video but did have a look at the comments in the mail and was actually pleasantly surprised at the number of folk saying it the reporting of it was shameful, sexist etc. didn't read that much admittedly but was surprised.

Bambambini · 05/07/2014 19:43

I've been on here a long, long time and SGB has never, ever convinced me of how liberated and right on she is.

waterducksback · 05/07/2014 19:43

I hope she had LOT of mouthwash - she wouldn't have known the hygienic state of those men's penises.
Some may have been unwashed for days!

And, not wishing to burst the bubble of those that think this sort of thing is fun and liberating:

She alsowouldn't have known the medical health of those men (who were basically strangers), nor they hers:

Herpes,
HPV
Gonorrhea
Warts,
Chlamydia
even aids (if cuts are present in her mouth).

I doubt whether, during the 'fun' of the moment she wore a dental dam?

MostWicked · 05/07/2014 19:48

the fact that people like you think it's ok, nay liberated, for an 18 year old girl to commit a sexual act in public upon 24 men says it all. If mature adults in Britain think this, then their teenage offspring stand no chance.

She's not an 18 yr old girl, she's a 21 (i think) yr old woman.
Its about being her right to choose most people wouldn't want to do this but she chose to and that was her right. She is an adult and is able to make her own decisions.
No one has suggested that not doing this makes you a prude.
No one has suggested that you should encourage your teenager to behave like this.
Most people would use this story to help their teens realise the consequences of behaviour like this and how something that is done in public, or in front of other people, can so easily get circulated and publicised. However, it is up to them to decide what to do with their own lives and if SHE looks back on it as a bit of a laugh, then that is what it is to her. It doesn't matter what it is to you.

I wouldn't do it, but I do defend her right to do it without being slut shamed.

waterducksback · 05/07/2014 19:48

meant condom, but you know what I mean.

lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout · 05/07/2014 19:57

Sanfairyanne took the words out of my mouth. X

lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout · 05/07/2014 19:59

lHowever if she is willing to perform sex acts in public then she can't have much in the way of morales. She is an adult after all. X

oohdaddypig · 05/07/2014 20:01

most any 18 -or 21 - year old who does this can only have very low self esteem and self respect. (Not to mention, as water says, happy to put herself at the risk of disease).

I hope she does manage to look back and laugh and it doesn't have any long term effects.

I'm not "slut shaming" but I'm frankly astonished that anyone who thinks her actions have been anything other than foolish are considered 'judgemental'.

MostWicked · 05/07/2014 20:15

can only have very low self esteem and self respect
can't have much in the way of morales

By YOUR standards and in YOUR opinion.
She might think otherwise.
You are judging her based on her sexual behaviour when she has the right to behave the way she did.

oohdaddypig · 05/07/2014 20:18

most I think the vast majority of people would agree here.

How would you feel if this was your daughter? I would of course support her, but would be devastated for her.

mercifulgibbon · 05/07/2014 20:35

I don't think people should be speaking for the "vast majority" just because it is their opinion and the opinion of several people who are enjoying picking apart a teenage girls behaviour.

SanityClause · 05/07/2014 20:36

"I wouldn't do it, but I do defend her right to do it without being slut shamed."

^^^^

This.

waterducksback · 05/07/2014 20:54

Is that the latest, PC, 'right on' MN phrase that's good to use? - ''Slut Shamed''?

(I've only just got used to that other sanctimonious (slightly prissy) ''I Defend her Right'' - said after just about everything).

(learn something new on here everyday)

waterducksback · 05/07/2014 20:55

Musn't forget 'judgy' Grin

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