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to just remove the bloody bolt?

299 replies

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 11:23

Sorry, this is petty and quite long, but the situation has descended into war over a bloody gate and I'm bloody fed up with it

I live in a little housing estate which is situated on the edge of a village, to one side of us is another housing estate, the other open fields. All bar 2 houses are owned by our landlord, he also owns the road, our access track, etc, etc.

In the corner of our house is a gate which leads into the housing estate behind us along a footpath. It's got one of those Chubb locks on it but we are all allowed to use it and have all been given keys

This gate is the only access we have by foot into the village. The track out of our estate when you're driving is about 4 miles round along narrow, windy, country lanes to the village, school, shop, etc. all has been fine and we've all been living here, sharing the gate and going about our business happily for years

About 2 months ago a new neighbour moved in and has complained endlessly about the gate and there have been a few disputes about it.

About a month ago the new neighbour added a slidey bolt to the gate and every time someone went out through the gate, he'd slide across the bolt, meaning you couldn't get back in. This wasn't terrible if someone was around to come and open the bolt, but several times we've all been stuck the other side of the gate.

More disputes about this bloody gate ensued and the Landlord got involved. Landlord removed the bolt and warned the neighbour.

So, this morning I go to use the gate to take DD to school, to find the bloody bolt is back and neighbour has now added a padlock

WIBU/illegal to remove the bolt and shove it up the neighbour's arse ?

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Hurr1cane · 25/06/2014 20:07

Gategate Grin

I have a neighbour like this. He's a massive dildo face. Moans about the kids playing out but quite happily exercises his massive hawk over the gardens to shit on everything. (I don't know if it shits, I probably just don't like it because I don't like him)

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 20:09

Oh, and I'll find my camera lead and post a pic when I download them

I can't actually believe I found myself taking a photograph of a fucking gate today

LL is dealing with gate-gate now, but if it escalates I'll definately check out 101

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Freckletoes · 25/06/2014 20:12

What a total git! I wonder what will be next once gate-gate is resolved!!

ICanSeeTheSun · 25/06/2014 20:13

GateGate love it.

How about a little treasure hunt with the bolt.

NormaStanleyFletcher · 25/06/2014 20:14

I have to mark place to see if another bolt appears.

Clutterbugsmum · 25/06/2014 20:16

I think you need to ensure that an adult is in ear shot of the children playing just incase NN behaviour get worse.

wafflyversatile · 25/06/2014 20:20

Get up in the night and put it on his front door.

Pimpf · 25/06/2014 20:22

Oooh, I'm sensing a nice picnic round your place with lots of lovely children riding their bikes and making Dailey chains. What time do you want us?

Amethyst24 · 25/06/2014 20:23

If you see him heading out on foot to buy a new bolt, quickly replace it so he has to do the 4-mile trek round to get back in.

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 20:29

Amethyst that did cross my mind Grin. I'm too far away from the gate to see him though. Might have to put the neighbours down that end on gate-gate gate watch

Clutter there's always someone down that end when they're playing out, so far he's just hanging out of his window shouting at them, but we have our ears/eyes out

My mission for tomorrow is to go out with the dog and find a shorter way round that doesn't involve electric fences, cows, ditches, evil brambles and big fuck off stinging nettles

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ThatVikRinA22 · 25/06/2014 20:30

does he have a garden gate? Grin Grin Grin

TwoAndTwoEqualsChaos · 25/06/2014 20:30

Sounds like you need to team up with FYChris!

AnyoneForTennis · 25/06/2014 20:35

I'd be out with the kids organising team games and heats of British bulldog and knockdown ginger!

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 20:36
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JellyBeansHaveNoAgeLimit · 25/06/2014 20:39

Your neighbourhoods sounds lovely, can I come and live there once bastard NN has been kicked out stinkle? Can't believe he has the gumption to act this way considering he is a new person on such a small street, renting rather than owning the house he's in!

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 20:39

Anyway, there's an episode of Midsomer Murders awaiting my attention

Will update if there's anything to update

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PersonOfInterest · 25/06/2014 20:43

I love fast moving neighbour threads!

Any gategate gate photos would be much appreciated.

CauldronOfFrogsLegs · 25/06/2014 20:55

Have been reading this thread with fascination!

Gategate! Grin

For your new route, try google satellite maps, it might show walking paths through the fields. I know it does around our parts.

scarletoconnor · 25/06/2014 21:04

I would add another bolt and lock and give everyone a key except him Grin

PhaedraIsMyName · 25/06/2014 21:09

Anyway, there's an episode of Midsomer Murders awaiting my attention

Now don't be getting ideas....

Seriously neighbour has no right to bolt the gate.

bloodyteenagers · 25/06/2014 21:16

I occasionally think about moving. Then i read about these crazy neighbours and i think fuck it, i will stay put.

LotsaTuddles · 25/06/2014 21:26

Am loving gate gate Grin

Agree that you should get another padlock and padlock the gategate gate and give everyone baring NN a key Grin

londonrach · 25/06/2014 21:31

Midsummer murders.....countryside....is your nn going to need another bolt (concerned)

HotDogJumpingFrogAlburquerque · 25/06/2014 22:04

Ah, this is a great thread!

HoneyTits · 25/06/2014 22:13

Have you checked google earth for a short cut?