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to just remove the bloody bolt?

299 replies

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 11:23

Sorry, this is petty and quite long, but the situation has descended into war over a bloody gate and I'm bloody fed up with it

I live in a little housing estate which is situated on the edge of a village, to one side of us is another housing estate, the other open fields. All bar 2 houses are owned by our landlord, he also owns the road, our access track, etc, etc.

In the corner of our house is a gate which leads into the housing estate behind us along a footpath. It's got one of those Chubb locks on it but we are all allowed to use it and have all been given keys

This gate is the only access we have by foot into the village. The track out of our estate when you're driving is about 4 miles round along narrow, windy, country lanes to the village, school, shop, etc. all has been fine and we've all been living here, sharing the gate and going about our business happily for years

About 2 months ago a new neighbour moved in and has complained endlessly about the gate and there have been a few disputes about it.

About a month ago the new neighbour added a slidey bolt to the gate and every time someone went out through the gate, he'd slide across the bolt, meaning you couldn't get back in. This wasn't terrible if someone was around to come and open the bolt, but several times we've all been stuck the other side of the gate.

More disputes about this bloody gate ensued and the Landlord got involved. Landlord removed the bolt and warned the neighbour.

So, this morning I go to use the gate to take DD to school, to find the bloody bolt is back and neighbour has now added a padlock

WIBU/illegal to remove the bolt and shove it up the neighbour's arse ?

OP posts:
Stinkle · 26/06/2014 08:59

Morning!

No bolt today

TBH, I don't think he'll do it again for a while, it was about a month between the first and second ones.

I love those penguins, but how much?

OP posts:
frankie001 · 26/06/2014 11:01

shameless place marking

AndHarry · 26/06/2014 11:20

In line to move into the vacated house...

SnakeyMcBadass · 26/06/2014 11:26
differentnameforthis · 26/06/2014 13:08

Take a picture of it in place first (before you remove it) otherwise he could deny it was on there.

differentnameforthis · 26/06/2014 13:23

Opps, but late to the party! Didn't see the date!

londonrach · 26/06/2014 13:50

Better late than never different.

QueenStromba · 26/06/2014 14:49

Glad you've had no trouble today.

TheCunnyFunt · 26/06/2014 17:51

Just seen this thread, :o @ Gategate! I can't believe the cheek of him Shock

jeanmiguelfangio · 26/06/2014 19:45

Shamelessly marking my place for gategate. Fantastic thread op, i almost want aanother bolt to appear so the LL shows up!!

YellowTulips · 26/06/2014 19:59

Shameless place marking Smile

gotnotimeforthat · 26/06/2014 20:27

Whoever it was that posted the link to the penguin bollards thanks Those fucking things have appeared on every single internet page i've been on tonight.

not marking my place honest

Fideliney · 26/06/2014 20:31

I think you'll find it was you rashly clicking the link rather than me posting the link that caused your problem there got Grin

PigletJohn · 26/06/2014 20:44

also delete cookies for barriersdirect.co.uk

"The Barriers web site uses cookies to improve the shopping experience"

ha ha ha, no it doesn't, it does it to flood our screens with useless litter

"assume you are happy with this usage, but if you are not then please disable and delete cookies from your browser settings"

assume my arse.

"find out more"

will tell you more about the garbage that they assume you want them to load onto your pc

www.aboutcookies.org/default.aspx?page=2

tell you a bit about how to block and remove this rubbish.

gotnotimeforthat · 26/06/2014 20:47

fide

If you post a link to a penguin bollard of course i'm going to click it. Grin

thanks pigletjohn

Fideliney · 26/06/2014 20:49

No impulse control at all. Sad really.

Fideliney · 26/06/2014 20:51

They do get slightly less sinister after a while. And they help squeeze the other adverts out

Any news on the gate-gate front OP?

BiscuitMillionaire · 26/06/2014 20:58

I'm sorry but, never mind Penguin Bollard on that linky page, what about Billy and Belinda Bollard?! Reeeeally creepy.

Provencalroseparadox · 26/06/2014 20:59

Ok have now read both penguin bollards threads. I thought they were just about penguin bollards but they are about SO much more than that.

Am actually sat on my own at Wimbledon reading them. Must GO HOME.

Stinkle · 26/06/2014 21:10

Yeah, the penguins infested my computer too. Although they've replaced the eyewateringly expensive shoes that were taunting me with their loveliness that I can't afford without selling a kidney, so I'm cool with them

Nothing to report on gate-gate front though, gate-gate gate remains bolt free

OP posts:
Fideliney · 26/06/2014 21:12

@ Wimbledon wimbledon Provencal?! It was a truly absorbing parking saga but still..... Grin

Stinkle how many kidneys do you need? How lovely are the shoes? Are you sure you are weighing up properly?

gotnotimeforthat · 26/06/2014 21:18

good point, the penguins have replaced the kiddies pink handbag toy that was linked to a thread a few weeks back that seemed to follow me around.

Billy and belinda?

Stinkle · 26/06/2014 21:24

They were about £1200 I think. From Todds. They're not even available anymore but the ad kept following me around

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Provencalroseparadox · 26/06/2014 21:34

Fidelney yes. Had a lovely day but friend left ages ago and I am sitting here alone reading about parking

Fideliney · 26/06/2014 21:36
Grin