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to just remove the bloody bolt?

299 replies

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 11:23

Sorry, this is petty and quite long, but the situation has descended into war over a bloody gate and I'm bloody fed up with it

I live in a little housing estate which is situated on the edge of a village, to one side of us is another housing estate, the other open fields. All bar 2 houses are owned by our landlord, he also owns the road, our access track, etc, etc.

In the corner of our house is a gate which leads into the housing estate behind us along a footpath. It's got one of those Chubb locks on it but we are all allowed to use it and have all been given keys

This gate is the only access we have by foot into the village. The track out of our estate when you're driving is about 4 miles round along narrow, windy, country lanes to the village, school, shop, etc. all has been fine and we've all been living here, sharing the gate and going about our business happily for years

About 2 months ago a new neighbour moved in and has complained endlessly about the gate and there have been a few disputes about it.

About a month ago the new neighbour added a slidey bolt to the gate and every time someone went out through the gate, he'd slide across the bolt, meaning you couldn't get back in. This wasn't terrible if someone was around to come and open the bolt, but several times we've all been stuck the other side of the gate.

More disputes about this bloody gate ensued and the Landlord got involved. Landlord removed the bolt and warned the neighbour.

So, this morning I go to use the gate to take DD to school, to find the bloody bolt is back and neighbour has now added a padlock

WIBU/illegal to remove the bolt and shove it up the neighbour's arse ?

OP posts:
WhereTheWildlingsAre · 28/06/2014 08:48

Ow! It's a scary penguin bollard reunion here! That was such a good threads!

Stinkle · 28/06/2014 09:08

Still no bolt, sorry to disappoint. I'm not sure about anticipation, I think it's going to be a damp squid Grin

Is it he doesn't like anyone at all people walking past his garden - 'invading his privacy'?

I don't know, he's said concerned about other members of the public walking past his house - but as has been pointed out a million times, you need a key to use the gate, so that argument doesn't hold up. There's a house opposite him, one beside him, he can't turn that end of our estate into a no go zone however much he'd like to

OP posts:
minibmw2010 · 28/06/2014 09:40

Well it sounds like you've dealt with it pretty well and hopefully he'll realise he just can't do that again. Good luck !!

PigletJohn · 28/06/2014 09:47

that was not meant to be an advert, by the way, just a suggestion that you should stock up.

unlucky83 · 28/06/2014 11:53

Stinkle - I think he might not want anyone - you guys included walking past his house...thinks if he keeps making it difficult you will give up trying or find an alternative route. Maybe when he rented he didn't appreciate how much use it got..but that's not an excuse for him...and he can always move on...fingers crossed he does!
(For my neighbour it was literally just my partner, me and small baby (when it started) using our path -and that was too much! Previous owners obviously mustn't have used it...or maybe been intimidated into not using it ...)

Greenkit · 30/06/2014 01:35

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TaliZorahVasNormandy · 30/06/2014 01:58

Stinkle When one of your DC has a birthday, have a street party, invite as many kids as possible.

runawaysimba · 30/06/2014 03:38

delurking to high-five PowderMum for unhinged. Hate for a good pun to go un acknowledged!

AnotherSpinningFuckingRainbow · 04/07/2014 00:59

Is the OP locked out, d'you reckon?

NoArmaniNoPunani · 26/07/2014 17:57

I wish the OP would update us

Whereisegg · 26/07/2014 18:04

Me too, I was thinking about this thread the other day.

MostlyCake · 26/01/2015 14:52

I've just come back to mn after a long break and this was one if the threads I was watching.....The op never came back :-( boo.

MrsMaker83 · 26/01/2015 15:02

Yanbu atall!!! What a knob this neighbour is!

MrsMaker83 · 26/01/2015 15:03

Oops just realised this is old Confused

TheMaddHugger · 26/01/2015 15:21

Zombies

to just remove the bloody bolt?
Bair · 26/01/2015 15:52

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to just remove the bloody bolt?
Stinkle · 26/01/2015 15:57

Oh, I was going to update this ages ago, but it disappeared off my list and I couldn't find it.

Nothing exciting though, no more bolts and neighbour moved away just before Christmas.

OP posts:
TheMaddHugger · 26/01/2015 15:59

yayyy, Thanks for the update better late than never :D

MostlyCake · 14/02/2015 17:16

Haha! At least we now know :-)

Ilovehamabeads · 14/02/2015 17:30

Ahh I loved this thread, it was one of the first good ones I read after I discovered the AIBU board Smile

middleagedbread · 14/02/2015 18:01

I remember this thread! Thanks for update, OP Smile.

JenniferGovernment · 14/02/2015 19:29

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pluCaChange · 14/02/2015 20:29

You are a STAR, Stinkle! Fancy responding to that MNer cri de coeur rather than letting the zombie (thread) revive in vain!

StayGoldPonyBoy · 14/02/2015 20:37

I've just read this whole bloody thing not realising it was old. I was thinking the OP was ace at updating Grin

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